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Q: Gay?????
asked by: progtaplayer on October 6th, 2007
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I am 14 and I don't know if I am gay streight or bi. I get a boner looking at just hot girls, and when there is a penis in the picture/video. Someone please help, I don't want to be gay but there is no way to cure it.... That I know of Sad
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young Girl
replied on October 6th, 2007
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ummm

if you are attracted to other guys then your gay
if notb then your not gay

plus youre 14
youre young
you dont know much about yourself yet
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Tylanas
replied on October 6th, 2007
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Re: Gay?????
progtaplayer wrote:
I am 14 and I don't know if I am gay streight or bi. I get a boner looking at just hot girls, and when there is a penis in the picture/video. Someone please help, I don't want to be gay but there is no way to cure it.... That I know of Sad

1. At your age, MATH class could give you a boner. That doesn't mean you have a fetish for math questions. You're entering puberty and you're going to get random hard-ons.

2. You're still young! Everything sexual is going to make you hard at this point. When you see a penis on screen, you're probably thinking about your own and pretending the one on screen is yours. That's not gay, that's called projection.

3. HOMOSEXUALITY IS NOT A DISEASE. It is like having red hair, or blue eyes, or dark skin, or big feet. You cannot and should not change it. It is natural.

4. You are too young to really know if you are gay or bi yet. Which do you prefer? When you walk down the hall at school, would you rather kiss a girl or a guy? If you pick girl, you're mostly straight. If you want to kiss guys, then you're mostly gay. But at your age, you simply may not know!
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Georgia59
replied on October 6th, 2007
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Getting a boner from seeing a penis is perfectly normal- it causes you to think about sex, so you get turned on.

It doesn't mean your fantasizing about penises.

Wait a while, don't think too much about it, and see how things turn out. I agree with what Eiri said. Smile
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theLway
replied on October 11th, 2007
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hay im 16 and im think im defintly bi lol im attracted 2 both sexes i dnt want 2 be i wish i was straight and it annoys me really badly lol i fancy girls and i fantazise bout boys lol is dis jus a phase
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Tylanas
replied on October 11th, 2007
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theLway wrote:
hay im 16 and im think im defintly bi lol im attracted 2 both sexes i dnt want 2 be i wish i was straight and it annoys me really badly lol i fancy girls and i fantazise bout boys lol is dis jus a phase

Sexuality is part of who you are inside. It is part of your DNA, just like your hair color and height. There is nothing you should do to try to change it. Being gay or bisexual or straight is all NATURAL and don't let anyone tell you otherwise Evil or Very Mad

Today is National Coming Out Day. October 11th. Celebrate your sexuality! I'm wearing a shirt today that says "I support Equality!" There are also shirts that say "Out And Proud!"

Be who you are!!
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Georgia59
replied on October 11th, 2007
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Don't worry about it so much. If you are bi, that's ok!! Just let it happen and see who you end up with.
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obi-wan kenobi
replied on October 12th, 2007
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Re: Gay?????
Eiri wrote:
1. At your age, MATH class could give you a boner. That doesn't mean you have a fetish for math questions. You're entering puberty and you're going to get random hard-ons.


lmao math class hahaha
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