Alcohol can easily affect your sexual satisfaction. Hopefully the alcohol wasn't the only reason you 2 decided to embark upon this because you could become emotionally damaged if you were not truely ready to lose your virginity.
If you were ready, just try again sober.
I didn't have an orgasm my first time either. I don't think that is out of the ordinary.
Practice makes perfect.
You can't think you aren't compatible in bed if this was your very first time having sex altogether. Sex is definitely learned through experience.

lol no i was ready to give it to him i have known him for three years and we had done everything but have sex up to this piont (we were waiting for me to get on bc and for me to be ready) so it didnt even hurt(Could have been the alcohal too) but i dont think my hymen was even whole.

It was the alcohol. It dulls the senses.

good i was worried about it being me cause even when he is giving me oral it takes me forever to climax and even then he usually has to finger me at the same time... i am afraid i just dont have a lot of sensitivity there... that would suck...

A lot of this is concentration and relaxing and letting it happen. And if he does fingering AND oral together = woohoo!

WOOO HOOO is right! The best kind****

lol i know i love his fingers....

I love mine sometimes during oral too!! ooooooooo dirrty

lol hmmm i think i am too chubby for that... but its worth a try. lol usually my hands are busy holding myself open for him lol

If you can .touch yourself, why a
re yo
u too chubby?

Ahh.... Kyleigh keeps hitting the keyboard
What I meant was, if you can hold yourself open, how come you are "too chubby"?

lol i dont know if i could reach and wouldnt i get in his way?

The guy is the one doing the fingering, not you lol. That's the point. You can hold yourself, hold onto the wall, or drag your nails up his back, it wouldn't matter because HIS hands are doing the work, not yours.

Not necessarily.... When he is giving oral, sometimes I like to do the touching. Not fingering, per say...just rubbing. I wouldn't bother fingering myself because after all, that is why he is there! haha

It can be fun to help out though. I'm pretty sure he likes me to... sometimes he will grab my hands and place them down to help. It's fun.

How right you are!

lol yea i got a good man he does what i want all i got to do is ask...