sillysallie1990
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I Couldnt Feel Much...
Posted: 10-05-07 14:07pm
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my boyfriend and i just had sex for the
first time the other night.(It was
actually my first first time) We had been
drinking... alot... and we went for about
two and a half hours. i enjoyed it but i
didnt orgasm at all and my boyfriend feels
horrible but i keep telling him that i was
too drunk because i really was feeling
much.... Is this true? I even tried
rubbing my self but i still was not
feeling much. can alcohal effect you this
way? or are we just gonna have to work on
being compatible in the bed? or is just
me? 
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Marianne0558
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Posted: 10-05-07 14:20pm
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Alcohol can easily affect your sexual
satisfaction. Hopefully the alcohol wasn't
the only reason you 2 decided to embark
upon this because you could become
emotionally damaged if you were not truely
ready to lose your virginity.
If you were ready, just try again sober.
I didn't have an orgasm my first time
either. I don't think that is out of the
ordinary.
Practice makes perfect.
You can't think you aren't compatible in
bed if this was your very first time
having sex altogether. Sex is definitely
learned through experience.
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sillysallie1990
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Posted: 10-05-07 14:23pm
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lol no i was ready to give it to him i
have known him for three years and we had
done everything but have sex up to this
piont (we were waiting for me to get on bc
and for me to be ready) so it didnt even
hurt(Could have been the alcohal too) but
i dont think my hymen was even whole.
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Posted: 10-05-07 14:29pm
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It was the alcohol. It dulls the senses.
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sillysallie1990
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Posted: 10-05-07 14:33pm
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good i was worried about it being me cause
even when he is giving me oral it takes me
forever to climax and even then he usually
has to finger me at the same time... i am
afraid i just dont have a lot of
sensitivity there... that would suck...
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Ingi
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Posted: 10-05-07 14:34pm
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| sillysallie1990
wrote: | | good i was worried about it
being me cause even when he is giving me
oral it takes me forever to climax and
even then he usually has to finger me at
the same time... i am afraid i just dont
have a lot of sensitivity there... that
would suck... |
A lot of this is concentration and
relaxing and letting it happen. And if he
does fingering AND oral together = woohoo!
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Marianne0558
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Posted: 10-05-07 14:36pm
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| Ingi
wrote: | | sillysallie1990
wrote: | | good i was worried about it
being me cause even when he is giving me
oral it takes me forever to climax and
even then he usually has to finger me at
the same time... i am afraid i just dont
have a lot of sensitivity there... that
would suck... |
A lot of this is concentration and
relaxing and letting it happen. And if he
does fingering AND oral together = woohoo!
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WOOO HOOO is right! The best kind****
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sillysallie1990
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Posted: 10-05-07 14:53pm
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lol i know i love his fingers....
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Posted: 10-05-07 14:55pm
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| sillysallie1990
wrote: | | lol i know i love his
fingers.... |
I love mine sometimes during oral too!!
ooooooooo dirrty 
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sillysallie1990
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Posted: 10-05-07 14:58pm
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lol hmmm i think i am too chubby for
that... but its worth a try. lol usually
my hands are busy holding myself open for
him lol
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Posted: 10-05-07 15:00pm
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| sillysallie1990
wrote: | | lol hmmm i think i am too
chubby for that... but its worth a try.
lol usually my hands are busy holding
myself open for him
lol |
If you can .touch yourself, why a
re yo
u too chubby?
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Posted: 10-05-07 15:00pm
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| Marianne0558
wrote: | | sillysallie1990
wrote: | | lol hmmm i think i am too
chubby for that... but its worth a try.
lol usually my hands are busy holding
myself open for him
lol |
If you can .touch yourself, why a
re yo
u too chubby? |
Ahh.... Kyleigh keeps hitting the keyboard
What I meant was, if you can hold yourself
open, how come you are "too chubby"?
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sillysallie1990
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Posted: 10-05-07 15:08pm
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lol i dont know if i could reach and
wouldnt i get in his way?
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Posted: 10-05-07 18:18pm
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The guy is the one doing the fingering,
not you lol. That's the point. You can
hold yourself, hold onto the wall, or drag
your nails up his back, it wouldn't matter
because HIS hands are doing the work, not
yours.
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Marianne0558
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Posted: 10-08-07 13:06pm
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| sillysallie1990
wrote: | | lol i dont know if i could
reach and wouldnt i get in his
way? |
Not necessarily.... When he is giving
oral, sometimes I like to do the touching.
Not fingering, per say...just rubbing. I
wouldn't bother fingering myself because
after all, that is why he is there! haha
It can be fun to help out though. I'm
pretty sure he likes me to... sometimes he
will grab my hands and place them down to
help. It's fun.
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Posted: 10-08-07 15:06pm
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| Ingi
wrote: | | sillysallie1990
wrote: | | good i was worried about it
being me cause even when he is giving me
oral it takes me forever to climax and
even then he usually has to finger me at
the same time... i am afraid i just dont
have a lot of sensitivity there... that
would suck... |
A lot of this is concentration and
relaxing and letting it happen. And if he
does fingering AND oral together = woohoo!
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How right you are! 
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sillysallie1990
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Posted: 10-09-07 02:42am
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| Ingi
wrote: | | sillysallie1990
wrote: | | good i was worried about it
being me cause even when he is giving me
oral it takes me forever to climax and
even then he usually has to finger me at
the same time... i am afraid i just dont
have a lot of sensitivity there... that
would suck... |
A lot of this is concentration and
relaxing and letting it happen. And if he
does fingering AND oral together = woohoo!
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lol yea i got a good man he does what i
want all i got to do is ask...
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