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young Girl

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Posted: 10-11-07 11:28am

newmommy07 wrote:
Oh god i've been asking my b/f of nine years to get his snipped off. I find it so disgusting that there is that skin flapping around when he walks around naked it makes me want to throw up. i try to be ok with it when hes around but bless seriously it makes me want to barf. i cant stand to look at him naked because of it and i wish he would change that part of him for me. it also tends to smell funky no matter how well its washed. and forget me giving him head thats just nasty. if he got it done id actually want to have sex with him. i know that sounds horrible but im not going to lie or sugar coat how i feel about it either. if you get your b/f to do it, give me tips how you got him to say yes!!! Smile lol


i think you are extremely selfish
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Posted: 10-11-07 12:30pm

WHOA! What a pleastant attitude you have.

I'll be he lets it get all cheesy on purpose just so he can see your lovely lovely attitude come out. Evil or
Very Mad

Maybe he'd mutilate himself if what he was mutilating himself for wasn't so atrocious and selfish.
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young Girl

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Posted: 10-11-07 12:49pm

mr tibbs wrote:
newmommy07 wrote:
Oh god i've been asking my b/f of nine years to get his snipped off. I find it so disgusting that there is that skin flapping around when he walks around naked it makes me want to throw up. i try to be ok with it when hes around but bless seriously it makes me want to barf. i cant stand to look at him naked because of it and i wish he would change that part of him for me. it also tends to smell funky no matter how well its washed. and forget me giving him head thats just nasty. if he got it done id actually want to have sex with him. i know that sounds horrible but im not going to lie or sugar coat how i feel about it either. if you get your b/f to do it, give me tips how you got him to say yes!!! Smile lol


If I lived with you I would have to pull my foreskin over my head and run like hell.

How does he feel about your droopy labia or your pendulous tits?


Laughing Laughing Laughing

oh my god this made me spit out my orange juice!!!
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Posted: 10-11-07 12:51pm

Shame on you, Mr. Tibbs. Men can't post in women's chat.

Razz
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young Girl

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Posted: 10-11-07 12:53pm

Ingi wrote:
Shame on you, Mr. Tibbs. Men can't post in women's chat.

Razz


you gotta admit though
that was huhlarious
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Posted: 10-11-07 12:55pm

Totally hilarious!
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Posted: 10-11-07 12:56pm

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha....
Maybe Mr Tibbs can be the exception HAHA
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emerald1

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Posted: 10-11-07 13:00pm

I might just ask him to get a little of it trimmed off but he can keep his foreskin. My mom and my sister thinks I should ask him to get it cut off.
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Posted: 10-11-07 13:06pm

Get a little trim? This isn't a hair cut! They don't 'trim' it.
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young Girl

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Posted: 10-11-07 13:19pm

they dont just trim a little off
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emerald1

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Posted: 10-11-07 13:26pm

I heard that doctors can just cut a little off the top. It may also reveal the head when he has an erection. Right now I have to push the skin back to reveal the head of his penis.
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Posted: 10-11-07 13:30pm

Why don't you just leave his penis alone? If he wants to get circumcised, he'll get circumcised. He's a big boy.
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Posted: 10-11-07 13:31pm

Who told you this information? You are aware that by cutting his skin, he will have to have stitches around his entire penis, right?

Are you also aware that although they numb this area with shots, that your boyfriend would be awake when he was getting cut?

And that sex would be out of the question for quite some time?

That is only if he agreed to do this procedure. And I think it would be asking a lot just to not have to pull back the foreskin to see the head of his penis. This seems like an incredibly selfish thing to ask of someone.
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emerald1

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Posted: 10-11-07 13:48pm

They have to use stitches? I was told it was a little snip. I know that he is awake during the procedure. I don't think he would not like not having sex or masturbate for extended period of time...thats his favorite hobby..lol

I'm not trying to be shelfish I'm actually doing it for him and us and don't want him to have problems later in life or when we get married. ( I feel like a bad partner now : (
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Posted: 10-11-07 13:52pm

Ok, imagine this, getting the lips of your vagina 'trimmed' for his pleasure. Because he doesn't want them flopping about and it might cause problems. Now, stay with me here - would you get stitches? Seriously... removing skin from your body requires stitches. So you'd be sitting on or near where they stitches were/are. Do you think this would affect the sex life you have for the better or the worse?

What problems is this going to cause in the future?
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Posted: 10-11-07 13:53pm

YEah but at least you didn't say something like this!!!!!!!
THIS person SHOULD feel like a bad partner.

newmommy07 wrote:
Oh god i've been asking my b/f of nine years to get his snipped off. I find it so disgusting that there is that skin flapping around when he walks around naked it makes me want to throw up. i try to be ok with it when hes around but bless seriously it makes me want to barf. i cant stand to look at him naked because of it and i wish he would change that part of him for me. it also tends to smell funky no matter how well its washed. and forget me giving him head thats just nasty. if he got it done id actually want to have sex with him. i know that sounds horrible but im not going to lie or sugar coat how i feel about it either. if you get your b/f to do it, give me tips how you got him to say yes!!! Smile lol


Yes they have to use stitches. The penis has a lot of blood pumping into it. What do you think causes the erection?????

If it is only aesthetic, it is wrong to ask. If it's for his own hygeine, ask in a mature way.... ask him what he thinks about it.... But don't be disappointed when he gets defensive or Mad.
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young Girl

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Posted: 10-11-07 14:23pm

yes there are stiches involved
why would you want to hurt him? if you really love him then you wouldnt care about his penis
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emerald1

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Posted: 10-11-07 15:02pm

I was trying not to hurt him; I'm trying to help him. I just thought it was done without stitches since it skin on the end of his penis. I couldn't imagine having my labia reduced or stitched up. My labia actually stick out but has never complained about it.

I didn't think having him circ. would have an effect on his sex life.
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young Girl

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Posted: 10-11-07 15:48pm

it might not help him and could really make things worse
and yes it could make sex painful for him

if its not hurting him now and hes fine with it then just leave it alone
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emerald1

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Posted: 10-11-07 15:51pm

the_girlfreind wrote:
it might not help him and could really make things worse
and yes it could make sex painful for him

if its not hurting him now and hes fine with it then just leave it alone



you might be right. Thanks for all the info.. : )

Just curious is your bf circumcised?
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