I don't think it is wrong to ask. If you plan on marrying this man, anyway. When men aren't circumcised, there can be a lot of hygiene issues that go along with the extra skin. It can be smelly, infectious if not properly washed. If you don't plan on marrying this man, you shouldn't even bother asking because circumcision at a late age is extremely painful. My nephew just had one at age 7 and he was VERY much in pain.

I knew a guy who had one as an adult. It was very painful. It got infected at some point and took a really long time to heal. Before it was completely healed, he had sex. Bad idea. He ended up in the ER because he had opened his incision with sex. Blech.

You can ask. But I'm willing to bet your boyfriend is pretty attached to his foreskin at this point.

Thanks for the quick response. I'm just worried he will get the feeling that I don't like his penis the way it is. I think he really likes his foreskin so it may take a lot of encouragement on my part. He has a long foreskin so I think surgery might be painful for him and may take a long time to heal.

I think if he makes sure it is cleaned well by pulling the skin back and cleaning underneath, it will help your situation out a lot.

I kind of like looking at the penis head but it is hidden out of sight. I wouldn't mind a little foreskin but his is real long.

owww
what if he asked you to cut a piece of skin off your libia?!?!?

If it was smelly and infectious and affected my sex life *with the man I wanted to MARRY* then YES, I would.

yeah but is this guys penis smelly and infectious?!?!?!!
or does she just think his forskin is too long?
because that would be messed up if he said "well your libia are too big,get em cut!"

Yeah, I can see that.
How come there is a double-standard for boobs?
If my hubby told me he would buy me new, bigger boobs, I'd do it...but that doesn't mean its *ok* for him to say that.

if travis asked me to get bigger boobs id punch him in the face

Well last time I asked for bigger boobs I got pregnant. Next time I want some, I'll just go buy some

It doesn't really smell he washes it very well. I think circumcised penises look better I just want to see his penis head when he walks around naked. Besides getting yeast infections sometimes but it could be his lotion that he puts on his penis sex hasn't been bad. I just think we may have problem in the future with his long foreskin and getting it circumcised now will help.

it may help but you could be hurting him really badly which is unfair

dont ever compare him to your other bfs
so what he isnt circumsized?

I don't compare him to my other bf's but he is a lot bigger then them. My mom and my sister has asked if my bf is circumcised but I have been ignoring there question and they just told me if he isn't I need to get him in to get circumcised because you may have problems in the future.

Ahh, an uncircumcised male chimes in This is exactly the response I thought would happen. Men don't like people saying their penis isn't good enough

ETA: Everything he said is true. And it sounds like he keeps his foreskin clean ~ but not all men do sadly. It can get quite gross. Isn't it called smegma? Blech.

You want him to multilate his genitals so you can see the head of his penis when he walks around? That's it?

"I think he really likes his foreskin..."

my husband and my boy dont have circumsed penis and i like it like that i dont think is wrong doing it but you have to respect his decision and as longest he is a clean person it shouldnt matter.

Circumcision is not necessary- it is not dangerous or anything as long as he takes showers like everyone else (and if he doesn't you have bigger problems than a smelly penis)

Really- don't do it. If he wants to get circumcised, that can be a private decision that he makes for himself. Men are very sensitive about their penises, (which they should be!)

Circumcision is NOT medically necessary- it is a social issue of genital mutilation. Please don't make him do it! Anyway, it probably makes sex better for YOU (because the most sensitive part of his penis is covered).