Yes I do pay for everything. Car, insurance, cell phone, internet, gas, I buy my younger brother things all the time just to reward his behavior. I make enough from one job to pay for that, and in my other job all of it goes to savings so I have quite a bit. It was mostly for when I got older and wanted to move out but it could be sooner than I think. My mom doesn't pay for anything unless it benefits her. My grandma pays for the food and utilities. She couldn't say anything to me about that because she still lives with her mom at 33. She tried moving out twice but no luck. Which is not an attack, I just hope she doesn't attack me about it. Although the other day she told me I'll probably get my own place before she does. hah.
I mean my mom had me at 16 and didn't have a job, my dad left the second she told him and she dropped out of high school.
I'll graduate before i'd be due. I only have 2 classes everyday anyways, still with my boyfriend, and have a steady income from both sides. I learned from her mistakes. Deon, my boyfriend, graduated last year and his family is really supportive, he's not ready to tell them yet though. Though in fact if my mom really did kick me out I would have a place to stay with his aunt because she told me I could a while back. I was planning on attending a nearby community college before and still plan to.
I have a rough blue print on how its going to work and be good for everyone. I just don't know if she'll believe I can do it.
I'm going on friday to the doctor. From there I guess I'll figure out what to do.
it's just weird because in my school agenda there is a different quote every week and this week it says,
"if you wait to do everything until you're sure it's right, you'll never do much of anything."