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Q: Are These Symptoms Common?
asked by: con on March 28th, 2004
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Hi, i'm new here. I have read through the posts and thought I might add my two cents.

Lately I have been having a stressful time, and have wondered wether I am going through my first bout of anxiety. (i am in my early 20s) throughout my whole life I have never smoked or done any drugs, and limited my alcohol intake to perhaps one or two glasses of wine per week. This sensibility is mainly due to my sister developing schizophrenia after doing drugs. I swore when I was a kid that I would never smoke or do drugs and have been successful.

Five weeks ago I was at a friends house and he poured me a glass of rum. I don't drink high content alcohol, so I took one sip (perhaps half a teaspoon) and decided it was vile and didn't drink anymore after that. However, after that my "friend" started joking about how there were drugs in the drink. He was only joking, but it still scared me. (needless to say, I didn't appreciate his sense of humour)

i started to worry about might what have happened and have been feeling anxious ever since. For the first two weeks I slept terribly at night (between 3 to 5 hours total) and awoke perhaps three or four times during the night covered in sweat and with a pounding headache, a pain in my chest and butterflies in my stomach. During the day I was afraid when I was in a room by myself. Thankfully i'm sleeping slight better now (6-7 hours), awaking only once at night and the sweating has gone. I still have a headache every day however, and find that I have to go to the toilet very often. I still can't stop worrying about the the future, and every now and then the butterflies in my stomach (feeling of fear) return. I'm either worrying that the symptoms I haver are because i'm going to get schizophrenia like my sister or worry about the the future and that i'm going to fail in the future (become terrible father or something like that).

It seems that a stressful event may have triggered off anxiety? Is this a common occurance? My doctor says that i'm "on edge" at the moment and in time I will relax and that I just need to be patient.
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san54
replied on March 28th, 2004
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Anxiety And Stress
What you are describing is panick attacks. Very common. You are worried about what your friend said he did and it is weighing on your mind. It will go away, but to be safe just go to your doctor and explain to him what is going on. Good luck. Wink
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2ferano
replied on March 28th, 2004
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It sounds like anxiety to me. You are so worried about who you feel will happen to you, that you are making yourself sick. It may or may not be panick "attacks" sounds more just like bad anxiety. But, hey you are not your sister. I understand your fear, I really do. But look at it this way: stressing and worrying will not do you any good whatsoever. If anything it is just going to make you more paranoid and give you more reason to believe that you are getting "symptoms"
easier said then done, I know, but just try to stay calm. If you find that your anxiety worsens talk to your doctor about maybe going on a temporary anxiety medication. Just enough to get you through this stressfull time.
By the way, your friend doesn't have a good sense of humor at all!
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Haley
replied on March 30th, 2004
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I think I would stay away from that friend if he thinks that is funny. I agree with the others that it is probably just bad anxiety but you do not want it to become full blown panic attacks as I suffered from them until got into my cbt group and now i'm weaning off drugs and feeling really good. The two books we are using in my group are really good and I would recommend them both highly: been there, done that? Do this! By sam obitz and mastery of your anxiety and panic-third edition by michelle craske and david barlow which is specifically for panic but still useful for general bad anxiety too.
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qt3
replied on April 1st, 2004
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Welcome con Smile
give cbt a try as it will teach you the tools you need to deal with your anxiety and free up all that wasted energy for more productive uses. Cbt gave me my life back! I love the obitz book that haley mentioned as it is a great intro to cbt and a short and easy read. In addition many univbersities offer cbt nprograms for little or no charge :d

take care!

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