Hmmm..
Well I'm kind of chunky lol and I get tired too(even though I don't think your weight affects it much, being on top can be a lot of work!) buuuttt what helps is when the guy humps upwards thats how I can always tell if my mans gettin' into it lol

I'm not sure what you can do from keeping you from getting tired, maybe try being on top but facing the opposite way, lean back some and have him kind of hold you up so you don't have to hld yourself up.

I find when I sit up more I get tired easier, but if your more touchy-feely and lay on him being all slouchy and kissey for some reason that keeps ME from geting tired lol


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You are using your thighs and your thigh muscles are the largest in the body. This is tiring. Try grinding more maybe? Or increasing your work out stamina by walking, bike riding, jogging etc.

I don't do so much up and down- but more back and forth or around in circles... try that maybe?

Good luck!

Yeah the circles thing is really easy on me. I had a hard time myself and just recently have been experimenting and seeing what works and doesnt. Thats my suggestions is try all the ones you have heard so far and see how they feel. At least you will have fun. = )

I alternate between up and down and back and forth. I will go fast up and down then slow down and go back and forth and then do the circled thing slowly then fast. This way it still feels amazing but I dont get as tired as fast.

My bf is pretty thin and I'm reeeeally tall, so when I ride on top my thighs hurt because I have to squat down alot since my legs are so long. And if I try laying on him and making out while doing it I feel like I'm bending his penis up and that probably hurts so I try not to do that. But yeah I don't think weight wa anything to do with it. The only discomfort there is within you. For example, when I sit on peoples' laps, I never put my full weight down on them because I feel like if I do theyre gonna think I'm heavy. So I support myself with my legs and that end's up being painful for me. So if you're uncomfortable with putting your full weight on him when you ride him, you're probably adding more stress to your own muscles. I do that and I feel like I need to stop for my own sake but idk....my bf weighs less than 140lbs and I weigh around 175lbs so I feel like I'm going to squish him =/