I Cant Ride On Top For Some Reason Posted: 10-04-07 01:37am
I've had my share of men and ao forth but
I've always had a problem with being on
top, i just cant do it.
I think it's because of my fitness level.
I'm only 130lbs but I'm 28%body fat and
when i'm on top I either get tired too
quick or it just doesn't work out. I know
bigger women can ride though.
I think I need more practice because
whenever I start to get on top it lasts
like 2 minutes because one of the two
problems I have happends.
I swear when I get on top for the first
time when a guy he must think I'm new at
sex because I can't ride. It really does
bother me though so I seriously need some
help.
ANY TIPS FROM ANYONE WILL TRULY BE
APPRECIATED.
Thanks
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Chikititax3
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Posted: 10-04-07 12:33pm
Hmmm..
Well I'm kind of chunky lol and I get
tired too(even though I don't think your
weight affects it much, being on top can
be a lot of work!) buuuttt what helps is
when the guy humps upwards thats how I can
always tell if my mans gettin' into it
lol
I'm not sure what you can do from keeping
you from getting tired, maybe try being on
top but facing the opposite way, lean back
some and have him kind of hold you up so
you don't have to hld yourself up.
I find when I sit up more I get tired
easier, but if your more touchy-feely and
lay on him being all slouchy and kissey
for some reason that keeps ME from geting
tired lol
(Yay for me! I registered.)
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Ingi
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Posted: 10-04-07 12:35pm
You are using your thighs and your thigh
muscles are the largest in the body. This
is tiring. Try grinding more maybe? Or
increasing your work out stamina by
walking, bike riding, jogging etc.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-04-07 14:35pm
I don't do so much up and down- but more
back and forth or around in circles... try
that maybe?
Good luck!
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Rosie H
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Posted: 10-05-07 10:23am
Yeah the circles thing is really easy on
me. I had a hard time myself and just
recently have been experimenting and
seeing what works and doesnt. Thats my
suggestions is try all the ones you have
heard so far and see how they feel. At
least you will have fun. = )
I alternate between up and down and back
and forth. I will go fast up and down
then slow down and go back and forth and
then do the circled thing slowly then
fast. This way it still feels amazing but
I dont get as tired as fast.
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Maji
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Posted: 10-08-07 19:41pm
My bf is pretty thin and I'm reeeeally
tall, so when I ride on top my thighs hurt
because I have to squat down alot since my
legs are so long. And if I try laying on
him and making out while doing it I feel
like I'm bending his penis up and that
probably hurts so I try not to do that.
But yeah I don't think weight wa anything
to do with it. The only discomfort there
is within you. For example, when I sit on
peoples' laps, I never put my full weight
down on them because I feel like if I do
theyre gonna think I'm heavy. So I support
myself with my legs and that end's up
being painful for me. So if you're
uncomfortable with putting your full
weight on him when you ride him, you're
probably adding more stress to your own
muscles. I do that and I feel like I need
to stop for my own sake but idk....my bf
weighs less than 140lbs and I weigh around
175lbs so I feel like I'm going to squish
him =/
