Everyone says I'm always the girl who can
make anyone smile even when there down but
yet I can't smile when somethings wrong in
my life. I always try & try &
never give up but I'm tired of trying my
hardest & nothing happens. I always go
out of my way for people & for once I
would just want something good to happen
in my life. I have all this anger from
things that happened in the past & its
just building inside & from time to
time I just cry out of no where because I
don't know what to do. I have had suicidal
thoughts but never actually thought of
doing it. I'm just so confused & don't
know what to do.
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FoodDRadio
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Sep 2007 Posts: 70 Location: ,
Posted: 10-03-07 19:52pm
Well..why dont you start off by telling us
about some of the things that are bugging
you.
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amanduhhbbyx3
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2007 Posts: 33 Location: miami,
Posted: 10-03-07 20:00pm
My mom was abused by my dad & if I
ever ask her anything about him she bursts
& starts yelling at me, I kinda
understand that but she gets more
aggressive because of that. I can't really
trust my friends, I get teased because
somehow people know about my home
situation. Not to mention I always get
cheated on by my boyfriends so I just get
so mad.
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FoodDRadio
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Sep 2007 Posts: 70 Location: ,
Posted: 10-03-07 20:09pm
Okay. Well...i cant really relate to much
of that other than the trust issues
because i myself know what you mean...but
you have to remember, they're you're
friends...they're supposed to be there for
you and you're supposed to be there for
them. My advice is you find at least one
person who you can share things with, i
know you want to, i know that even knowing
that theres someone you can talk to makes
the difference.
As for your mother...i know it may not be
the best advice....but you should probably
leave her alone until you're a bit
older...then you HAVE to talk to her about
it, its something that shes going to live
with for the rest of her life, and shes
going to have to get over the fact that
it's in the past.
For the teasing, my advice is to just try
as hard as you can to ignore it...words
dont have power unless you give it to
them.
Now for the boyfriends...Look....boys your
age are stupid. They know what they want
and dont want to stop until they get it.
If you're lucky you'll find someone, but
if someone is going to cheat on
you...they're asses and didn't deserve you
in the first place.
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MMAFighter
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Sep 2007 Posts: 363 Location: WA, USA
True Posted: 10-04-07 16:50pm
Boys your age are probably dumbasses. I'm
one of the "smart boys" and I've never had
a girlfriend as a result!
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MMAFighter
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Sep 2007 Posts: 363 Location: WA, USA
Don't Stress Out Posted: 10-04-07 18:24pm
I agree with foodradio, ask your mother
about her bad experiences when you're old
enough to consider yourself a woman, so
that you'll be able to avoid those
experiences. Wait to ask her when you're
older. As for an outlet for anger, keep
doing art, maybe talk to a school
counsellor if necessary, and pm us ehealth
members!
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amanduhhbbyx3
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2007 Posts: 33 Location: miami,
Posted: 10-04-07 19:14pm
thanks a lot (:
but in my school i really dont trust my
counslor
shes very nice but if i tell her something
it will be
all over the school so instead ill just
talk to my cousin (sort of my sister)
i know i can trust her with my life
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 10-04-07 19:29pm
live your teen years
stay young
stop worrying and look at the good things
in life
dont try to grow up so fast
take a deep breath and just
slow....down....
let life do what it needs to do and dont
try to fight it
keep a clear mind and rememebr...
in 10 years
you will be somewhere else...
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MMAFighter
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Sep 2007 Posts: 363 Location: WA, USA
I'm Sorry Posted: 10-05-07 16:54pm
Your counsellor spreads your personal info
across the school? That's terrible. My
counsellor promised to keep anything we
talked about during our meetings
confidential but I have a feeling she let
some stuff out to at least all my
teachers. Once I saw my counsellor
randomly talking to my bio teacher. My
old chemistry teacher told me that all the
science teachers talk about me during
their lunch hours. This random physics
teacher I didn't even know went up to me
and asked "So you're the famous Roger?".
I dunno, at least my personal stuff isn't
going all over the student body.
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AaronS
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Sep 2007 Posts: 15 Location: ,
Posted: 10-06-07 21:32pm
Yea, boys your age are stupid. Especially
if they'd cheat on you.
Your counselor should not be able to tell
anyone anything you tell her, or she would
lose her job.
The basis of friends is trust. Ignore all
of those comments about you. You know you
and noone else does. And that is their
loss.
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FoodDRadio
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Sep 2007 Posts: 70 Location: ,
Posted: 10-07-07 01:17am
AaronS
wrote:
Yea, boys your age are
stupid. Especially if they'd cheat on
you.
Your counselor should not be able to tell
anyone anything you tell her, or she would
lose her job.
The basis of friends is trust. Ignore all
of those comments about you. You know you
and noone else does. And that is their
loss.
I'm her age(at least i think i am, i'm 15)
and i dont think i would EVER do something
like that, but im going to have to agree
with the fact that most others would...
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Enlightened Uselessness
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Sep 2007 Posts: 86 Location: ,
Posted: 10-07-07 02:18am
the_girlfreind
wrote:
live your teen years
stay young
stop worrying and look at the good things
in life
dont try to grow up so fast
take a deep breath and just
slow....down....
let life do what it needs to do and dont
try to fight it
keep a clear mind and rememebr...
in 10 years
you will be somewhere
else...
Nice quote. I wish I was still in
Elementary School.
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 10-07-07 08:25am
Enlightened Uselessness
wrote:
the_girlfreind
wrote:
live your teen years
stay young
stop worrying and look at the good things
in life
dont try to grow up so fast
take a deep breath and just
slow....down....
let life do what it needs to do and dont
try to fight it
keep a clear mind and rememebr...
in 10 years
you will be somewhere
else...
Nice quote. I wish I was still in
Elementary
School.
i know me too
i miss playground time
and lunch
and not careing about anything
just being a kid
is what its all about
life goes by too fast guys
way way too fast
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amanduhhbbyx3
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2007 Posts: 33 Location: miami,
Re: I'm Sorry Posted: 10-10-07 14:46pm
MMAFighter
wrote:
Your counsellor spreads your
personal info across the school? That's
terrible. My counsellor promised to keep
anything we talked about during our
meetings confidential but I have a feeling
she let some stuff out to at least all my
teachers. Once I saw my counsellor
randomly talking to my bio teacher. My
old chemistry teacher told me that all the
science teachers talk about me during
their lunch hours. This random physics
teacher I didn't even know went up to me
and asked "So you're the famous Roger?".
I dunno, at least my personal stuff isn't
going all over the student
body.
I know she tells my teachers but some how
everyone knows, like thats why I get
teased, Im considered "popular" but like
last year they found out what happened to
my mom when I was little so they teased me
about that.
