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Girlfriend Pregnant?
Posted: 10-03-07 11:04am
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My girlfriend who is 17 last got her
period around August 20th and it ended on
August 26th. On August 25th we were in
the shower where I definitely remember
ejaculating on the shower wall, but I'm
also positive that I didn't get anything
on my hand. I did finger her though. I
just feel that I'm very careful and would
have known if I had any semen on my hand.
Within 9 days after the shower she said
she wasn't feeling good. She was feeling
stomach aches, and headaches. That all
went away and then she got a cold that
lasted about 4 days.
She says her periods are crazy and jump
around but she started to get really
worried and almost sick to her stomache at
the thought of being pregnant. Especially
since we've never had sex.
Fastforward to yesterday which was about
44days since her last period. We decided
to do 2 EPT's and both said not pregnant.
I told her not to drink water before doing
it and she said she drank some pop.
She just found out that her friend has
mono and she said that she is always
drinking out of her water or anything
during school.
I know it's a slim chance, but we are both
paranoid, but what are the chances of her
being pregnant.
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Mabel
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Posted: 10-03-07 11:07am
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Not. If your penis did not enter her. And
no semen got inside her - then how would
she be pregnant?
Pregnancy symptoms do not show up so early
either. Most women do not get any symptoms
until their period goes missing.
She has also had 2 negative tests. Relax.
Don't ever forget to USE CONDOMS.
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blablabla
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Posted: 10-03-07 11:09am
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she was concerned that maybe I did have
some on my hand.
I'm banking on the fact that getting a
cold and maybe having mono and along with
stress would be delaying her period. She
said that she was freaking out when she
had to take her license test.
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Mabel
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Posted: 10-03-07 11:13am
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Add to that she has irregular periods to
begin with and you have a recipe for a
late period. Fear of pregnancy, stress,
illness, all those things can cause
a late period - and her periods are all
over the place anyway.
Please invest in birth control. Sex is way
more fun when you can enjoy it without
fear of pregnancy! 
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blablabla
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Posted: 10-03-07 12:22pm
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and the fact that we didn't even have sex
is what really makes me believe that she's
ok, but I just feel like with my luck
she'd end up getting pregnant from being
fingered
I also read where people say EPT's
pregnancy test is not very accurate which
also makes me worry
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Mabel
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Posted: 10-03-07 12:28pm
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| blablabla
wrote: | and the fact that we didn't
even have sex is what really makes me
believe that she's ok, but I just feel
like with my luck she'd end up getting
pregnant from being fingered
I also read where people say EPT's
pregnancy test is not very accurate which
also makes me
worry |
I know you are afraid. I'm sure she is
afraid. SHE IS NOT PREGNANT!
She is stressed out. She has been ill. She
has an irregular cycle. SHE IS NOT
PREGNANT.
You could have bought the pregnancy test
at the dollar store. Women do not get
pregnant in the shower without having sex.
Your sperm is not Super Duper Sperm that
somehow, miraculously attached to your
finger and then found it's way inside her
when you touched her. (but you said you
KNOW you didn't get any on your hand)
Also, a little about ovulation in women:
most women ovulate 14 days BEFORE their
next period. Although that can vary from
woman to woman and some women have been
known to get pregnant while on their
period. The chances of her ovulating AND
your sperm magically finding their way to
the egg are so low that both of you should
believe the first pregnancy test and stop
worrying about things that don't exist.
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Marianne0558
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Posted: 10-03-07 12:29pm
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| blablabla
wrote: | and the fact that we didn't
even have sex is what really makes me
believe that she's ok, but I just feel
like with my luck she'd end up getting
pregnant from being fingered
I also read where people say EPT's
pregnancy test is not very accurate which
also makes me
worry |
EPT's are very accurate. Where did this
come from? I highly doubt she is pregnant.
I haven't heard of (correct me if I'm
wrong) ANYone getting pregnant by cause of
fingering.
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jaja029
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Re: Girlfriend Pregnant?
Posted: 10-03-07 21:31pm
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i think too she is not...her period juz
have gone crazy....
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blablabla
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Posted: 10-10-07 07:57am
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ok so it's been about 52 days since her
last period on aug 20th and still no
period we also took 2 more first response
tests because we're still kind of freaking
out.
Is it possible that her period could have
just skipped instead of delayed and will
hopefully come around Oct 20th?
Also if she was pregnant wouldn't she be
feeling a little differently?
She said she feels normally just still
freaking out about not getting her period.
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