Q: Married w/No Sex - Is it healthy to have sex occasionally ?
asked by:
air nautique
on October 2nd, 2007
New User
I am somewhat depressed and really frustrated. My husband and I have been married since early January and throughout our whole marriage we haven't been having very much sex. And when I say this, I mean very little. There was a span when we went 2 months with nothing. During our honeymoon I think we had sex like 3 times in a week. We had sex before we got married and it was fun and we did it all the time. but since we've been married it's a different story. Personally I think that people need sex. It gets rid of stress and frustrations even if only for the moment. My husband on the other hand, disagrees. And lately it's been taking a toll on me. Throughout our marriage I have always been the one that wanted sex all the time, and him of course, the opposite. I try to set romantic moods, suggest things, and even put on sexy babydolls and nighties. All to no avail. He says that he's just not in the mood, or he's tired. I mean, don't get me wrong. I don't doubt for a second that he doesn't love me or think I'm not sexy. But, he just doesn't seem to want sex. Please help! I feel that this is something that could potentially hurt our marriage!!
|