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Q: Married w/No Sex - Is it healthy to have sex occasionally ?
asked by: air nautique on October 2nd, 2007
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I am somewhat depressed and really frustrated. My husband and I have been married since early January and throughout our whole marriage we haven't been having very much sex. And when I say this, I mean very little. There was a span when we went 2 months with nothing. During our honeymoon I think we had sex like 3 times in a week. We had sex before we got married and it was fun and we did it all the time. but since we've been married it's a different story. Personally I think that people need sex. It gets rid of stress and frustrations even if only for the moment. My husband on the other hand, disagrees. And lately it's been taking a toll on me. Throughout our marriage I have always been the one that wanted sex all the time, and him of course, the opposite. I try to set romantic moods, suggest things, and even put on sexy babydolls and nighties. All to no avail. He says that he's just not in the mood, or he's tired. I mean, don't get me wrong. I don't doubt for a second that he doesn't love me or think I'm not sexy. But, he just doesn't seem to want sex. Please help! I feel that this is something that could potentially hurt our marriage!!
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sexxybexxy
replied on October 2nd, 2007
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Hi
hi, have you sat down with him and talked it over.
Maybe he is having an affair.
sorry for sounding bad only trying to help.
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Tylanas
replied on October 2nd, 2007
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I'm wondering why he suddenly changed from wanting as much sex as you prior to the marriage to now wanting almost none. Have you asked him?
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nightangel73
replied on October 2nd, 2007
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sex about 3 times a week sounds like about right for me and my fiance. But then we are older so we really get tired a lot lol. Now 2 months without sex doesn't sound right. That sounds to be a problem there that only he can tell you about. Gee that is scary to have this kind of sexual life before marriage then after marriage is a different story. Sorry to hear that.
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