I am 32 F and it has been over 4 years since the last time I had intercourse. My current b/f who is older (3 and we had sex this past weekend. I had used a fair amount of lube. After trying a few postions he was able to enter and we had a wonderfull time. After that I have become very painfull whenever he tries to enter my vagina. He knows I am painfull and does not force his way into me. We both decided to give sex a break untill I am not as sore. I did look at my vaginal area to see if I noticed irritation. I did notice redness around the opening to my vagina. It is tender to the touch. What can I do to prevent the soreness from him entering my vagina? I am willing to try other types of lube. I don't think the K-Y silk was that good. I would also like to know what I can do to allow him to enter me. His penis is very large when he is fully erect. I am unable to get my fingers around his penis whenever I stimulate him. He is much larger than the other guys I had been with. He also knows he is well endowed and is fully comfortable with taking his time and going slow when I aak. If anyone can shed some light and some helpfull advice please feel free.