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Q: So Heres Whats New...(&pictures)
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young Girl
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busy buys busy weekend
on saturday we went to houston to take travis friend home
well that was a 4 hour drive...after we dropped him off we went to travis aunts house to see her new baby caden who ws just born:) he was a month preemie and weighs 5lbs 6oz
when we got to his aunt jodis it was soooo cute
travis was all into caden and asking his aunt lots of questions about haveing a baby and all and what it was like. he watched her change his diaper and everything and then he goes " awww i want one"
LOL i thought that was cute
anyways so about 15 people were at her house plus us because all of the family came to see the baby. and so all his aunts and uncles are there and all the girls were talking about the shower and stuff because all of his family is driving down from houston on the 13th for the shower (so exited its almost here!)
so the boys (travis his dad and his uncles) were in the garage talking and hanging out
travis aunt is a photographer and she took some pics of me and trav which i LOVE even though i look like a fatty...
so pics are below
well anyways so we left houston about 7 and we had a 3 hours drive back...so travis starts talking about his uncle clints new job at an electricl company makeing 30 bucks an hour
so i guess travis uncle offered travis a job...he would be an apprentice electritian and get started at 10.50 an hour and he would work from 7 to 3 every weekday and off weekends unless he wanted to work on saturday then he would make time and a half
but thats in houston
so how would he work in houston?
well his uncle said we could MOVE in with him (hes got a huuuuge house)
so now...travis wants to move back to houston agagin after we already had all of this igured out and i said no he wants to go again
and guess what?! so do his parents
so im mad about that and im still sticking with NO im not going
sorry but i dont want to be that far away from my family
its not fair and wouldnt be fair to my parents at all if i just left and had the baby up there
they would never see us
ok so nough about that
i have a Dr appt wednsday and im going to go see my mom whom i havent seen in like a month
oh and the puppy is doing great!!!!!!
so ill shut up now...here are some pics!!!
this is conner hes one of travs cousins
he belongs in the chub club!!!
me and trav
i love this picture
and the pics of caden are still on my camera which is in the car so ill post them later!
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amethyst eyes
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young Girl
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| iridescent_opal wrote: |
| Honestly, if moving means a stable income for you and your child then you should do it. It is not about being close to family it is about taking care of your child. |
he could be doing that HERE
he could go to work at an auto shop and make 10 bucks an hour
and here i can work too and make money
if we live there i cant. i couldnt bring dogs in his uncles house they have 4 of them already
i dont know what to do
im so torn about it all. and i dont get why his parents want to go back when they worked so hard to leave all of that behind
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amethyst eyes
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rosejackson
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young Girl
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| iridescent_opal wrote: |
| But as an apprentice he would have more of a future making more money and obtaining insurance, etc. Why would you want him to work in an auto shop if he can obtain a position that could lead to a $30 and hour position in the future? |
i know
thats whats hard about this
and we would have to go for 10 months and then we could come back and they would transfer him down here
but if we did go wed have to go in march at the latest
kristen would be only 3 months old and my mom wouldnt get to see her daughetr or grandaughter for 10 months!!! and i feel like crap because my mom is so exited
it would really break her heart if i said oh mom im leaveing to houston for a while and you wont be able to watch your grandaughter grow up during the most important and amzeing aprt of her life...
i guess with me its not about the money its about family
weve got a great family and great support and a great life
a great opportunity here too. and houston isnt the best place to live and raise a child. i know it would be good money but money isnt everything right now
im trying to think about whats best for my child and for me and travis relationship and its just not moving that far away
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amethyst eyes
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musikmaker
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Bridget
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young Girl
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amethyst eyes
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young Girl
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amethyst eyes
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young Girl
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| iridescent_opal wrote: |
| You can always get a job in Austin. The consequence is you having to leave your family to get a better opportunity for your child. Travis becoming a mechanic does not offer as good a future as becoming an electrician. You should also consider what he wants for Kristen and your future since he is a part of the family as well. Moving is better for your family and that is what matters. |
yeah thats true
i guess me and him have alot to talk about and figure out
i dont know...im scared
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amethyst eyes
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fairytale007
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young Girl
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thanks for your help hun 
it will all work itself out...
it will all work itself out...
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fairytale007
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Apparently, I'm out of it right now...because I just noticed that I put "If I would you"....you know what I meant. 
I think I'll take pictures tonight or tomorrow, because I bought a new outfit and my hair is straight for a change.
I think I'll take pictures tonight or tomorrow, because I bought a new outfit and my hair is straight for a change.
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young Girl
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| fairytale007 wrote: |
| Apparently, I'm out of it right now...because I just noticed that I put "If I would you"....you know what I meant. I think I'll take pictures tonight or tomorrow, because I bought a new outfit and my hair is straight for a change. |
lol
are you DRUNK?!?!?! just kidding amy
oooh i wanna see pics1
yeah i have some pictures i need to post off my other camera but its stil in the car lol
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