Have you ever had an actual girlfriend? For you it may be an emotional block, where you don't want to risk releasing yourself inside of another person's body whom you do not love.

hi, i am married and have a wife, its still the same. during my previous yrs of relationships.....i cant cummed too

My BF has the same problem - he loves any kind of sex and he can even outlast me, but he can only climax through a handjob. Then again, he requires a lot of attention to reach that point, even via hands. Some guys are just less sensitive than others in that area of their body and require more stimulation than others. I've been with guys who would go off in less than a minute, and others who absolutely would not go off no matter what I did or how long I did it for.

There's not a problem with you - you just may not be as sensitive to touch down there and I don't think it's unusual. Some people are very ticklish, some not at all. Some people can handle a lot of pain, some can't handle any. We're all different, are we not?

thanks for your reply, i thought i was something wrong with me, well everythimg i cum not through the normal procedures, feel that the sex is not complete. my ex even offered me anal, as it is much tighter, but after that i still cant cum.....its frustrating to be a marathon, and torturing for not finishin the game at the right places...

Have you tried using toys during sex? vibrating penis rings, etc. etc.? They might help. You might just be less sensitive than the average guy, so upping the stimulation might help.

Are you circumsized? Have you ever seen a urologist about this problem?

nope, i am not