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October 1st, 2007
i can never seem to get an orgasm while getting fingered only clit stimulation works.. i have to fake to make my bf feel he done something nice for me. is there anything he can do to cause me to have an orgasm with clit stimulation.. my g spot is very insensitive :S

i havent had sex yet and am a bit scared to for the fact that everything bigger then a finger hurts like hell i cant even get 2 fingers in without causing me pain. I dont think i have my hymen and i am relaxed when doing so. When getting fingered the outside and sometimes the inner bit at the front starts to hurt.. i naturally lube but it still hurts.. also i am not actually turned on i get ready and i am but then i loose interest and just lay there

any ideas why and how i can get more then a finger up.. i feel like i have a very very small vagina
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Marianne0558
replied October 1st, 2007
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Practice practice practice. Sex didn't feel good for me until after the first couple of times. It's going to hurt but once you get over that, it's a wonderful thing Surprised
I would try using KY or something in addition to your natural lube. That could help a little.
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Hybrid-rats
replied October 1st, 2007
i have been masturbating for about 2 years and still nothing seems to fit apart from a finger sized thing :S i have tried expanding in size only to find that the bigger it gets the more it hurts and the more it tightens to walls even though i am fully relaxed.. i have tried different positions but no hope Sad i dont know what to do... is there a way to expand my inner walls
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Tylanas
replied October 1st, 2007
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Masturbating will NOT make your vagina opening any bigger.

You need to use a lot of lube! Dry fingers are painful! Don't try putting in anything bigger than a finger if it hurts. Stretch using just one finger, while getting clitoral stimulation.

Have you ever orgasmed from clitoral stimulation? G-spot stimulation doesn't do boo for most women so don't even worry about it.

Also, the inner walls aren't your issue, it's the entrance that causes pain. The inside walls are ready to expand to the size of a baby's head!
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Hybrid-rats
replied October 1st, 2007
yes with clitoral.. what could i use a lube.... i have vasaline is that helps

even sometimes is hurts with a finger with clit stimulation helps alot
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Tylanas
replied October 1st, 2007
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You should go buy a water-based lubricant in a store. There is one common brand called KY jelly.
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Georgia59
replied October 1st, 2007
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Try a lube, even if you get naturally lubricated, you might not realize how much better it is with extra lube. Never put anything dry into a vagina.

And most women don't get anything from g-spot stimulation. You should direct him to spend his time fingering you by stroking your clit in whatever way feels best.

If relaxing and using lots of lube doesn't help ease the pain when you try to enter something into your vagina, you might need to see a doc. Especially if you don't have a hymen.
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BobbyWarren
replied March 17th, 2010
Most women are capable of having a 10 pound baby, but that doesn't mean you can bang one with a five pound dick.
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