|He's only had sex with one other person, and he got tested afterwards and it came up clean. He's very honest about his sexual history and would have told me if there was anything to worry about. Right now the only thing I'm worried about him *passing* to me is his sperm...|
The clinic you get your birth control pills from will tell you how long it will be before your pills start working. Anywhere between one week and one month.
|Ok thanks a lot! And I'll keep what you said in mind too...|
|i think its because you sometimes sound like you have an attitude. thats how i took it|
|Hmmmmm....you can fake your body into being perma-pregnant, use an IUD, or make him WRAP IT UP. Dont buy the "its doesnt feel as good" crap and dont do anything that may effect you later.
Research how women keep track of when they ovulate. There are ways to know when you are most likely to get pregnant. You can keep a journal and all it takes is small things like taking waking temperature to know when you are most fertile, its really easy and in addition to a condom can make you even more confident that you wont get preggers. Wrap it up and avoid sex during that time of the month to be even more sure.
My GF took BC for the 4 years when we were together and I cant believe after reading more about it, that I chose that over a condom and responsible sexual activity.
PS - The small amount of fluid before ejaculation that is supposed to flush out urine, may contain small amounts of sperm.