Do what ever you feel is right. Don't let anyone try to convince you either way. This is a decision that you have to make on your own. You will get a lot of people on here that will tell you abortion is wrong, but remember it may be wrong for them but it doesn't have to be wrong for you.

I myself was in an abusive relationship and I got pregnant about 6.5 years ago. It was a total accident (we used protection) but I decided that the right thing for me was to terminate the pregnancy. All I thought was that I would never be able to rid myself of this guy if I have his child. Now 6.5 years later I am married to a wonderful man and we now have a daughter together. I do not regret my choice because honestly I don't think that I would be where I am today if I hadn't of done it.
So again remember........this is YOUR decision. But you decided very soon because you don't want to do it when you are really far into your pregnancy.

So good luck and feel free to ask me any questions.

Nobody can actually TELL you if you should get an abortion or not. I just want to warn you that a lot of pro-lifers are going to read this and tell you not to abort.

To me, you need to sit down, think of the pros and cons of having this baby and the pros and cons of not having this baby.

Obviously this "man" needs to be out of the picture. He can't tell you to abort your child, that is your decision and yours alone.

Are you living at home or with him? Do you have any way to support your child/children? CNA classes run about 10 weeks, right? That would give you plenty of time to finish classes while you are pregnant so you are able to go back to a decent job after delivery (IF you choose to keep the baby).

There are also TONS of couples out there who would love to have a child and are unable to do so. Adoption is also something you might want to consider.

Let me know if I can help you in any way. I know how hard things must be right now but there will always be light at the end of the tunnel. Just make sure it's not a train.

i agree... no one can tell you or make you do anything... do you want this baby?
I had an abortion when i was 17 yrs old and for me it was the right decision. Now i am pregnant (by the same guy, i have been with him for 6 yrs) and i wouldn't dream of aborting this one. It is all a matter of curcumstance and personal decision. do not let this shifty man decide for you.
if you need any help let me know

Babies are worth it. Don't do it.

This post needs to be moved to the Abortion Support forum, the Pregnancy forum is not the right place for it and I want to avoid flaming...

agreed

Is there a reason this is in the adoption forum?

hi, how are you and the baby. how is your relationship with the father?