It's prolly cuz u miss him bein around and such... For the first little while, try and keep urself busy. Try and keep ur mind off him. Sorry to hear everything u went thru but it would be better this way, thats smart of u to concentrate on the baby.. I hope all goes well...

shauna

It is definitely very hard at first but stay stong and it will pay off in the long run!

Thanks girls. I just have to keep reminding me of the bad things hes done, and why I broke up with him. Like all the mean comments (he made one last nite too, here it is I saved it so I wouldnt decide to go back with him and when I want to to read it.. K look the skeaxryi629 is me.. . Skeaxryi629 (10:57:33 pm): but its too late now. I have other things to focus on right now anways. It just not working, I dont need your put downs and I dont need a guy period and u act like im lucky to be with u.
Jayrock330c (10:59:15 pm): focus on no one there to talk to you or care or be there for the baby even though it was not mine I would of stuck with it must guys would of just ran, youll seee one day.

Comments like that! Then he turns around and says this
skeaxryi629 (10:59:37 pm): o medical answer u, its comments like that!



Jayrock330c (10:59:58 pm): I think u got it wrong
jayrock330c (11:00:32 pm): it just met I care.


How does that seem caring? I think it sounds like hes sayin no one else would want me!?



I guess ijust need to focus on this stuff to make me not wanna be with him! He hasnt even called, im surprised because he called and called last time. But I bet hes hangin out w/ ryan now (my babys father) but its for the best if he doesnt call, I need to be strong about my decisison and try and move on. I feel kinda lonely tho..O well. It sounds gay.

How come one of your j's is caps and one isnt? If its a convo hows come it did that?

Lol because when I copy/pasted only those little parts I didnt copy the whole s/n so I just typed in the jay....Its not like I made it up? Thats my ex and word for word what was typed.

Be strong girl!

My b/f of 2.5 years dumped me and now he is really regretting it now and is quite angry that I already have a date. Stay true to what you decided as youwill be happier later, I promise. I will not have him back because in the back of my mind it will all repeat itself again. Stand your ground and be strong
meg

He acts like your whole focus is on having a guy in your life! Trust me there are plenty of guys out there that dont mind being with someone with a kid!! I have 3 and none of them are jesse but he loves them and me!

Yep , I know, that was one of our many problems....

Is it terribly pathetic that a small peice of me wants him to call me? Even tho I dont wanna go back with him. . Its like I wish he wouldve tried to call at least once. .The other time I broke it off I couldnt get him to stop callin. .But this time he still hasnt tried once and its been 2 days (not too long but still) ha even if I didnt talk to him, I just wanted him to call, am I stupid?

Your not stupid!

U did the right thing..For breaking up with him. You need to fouces on u and ur baby u dont need a guy to make u happy!!!