Hi Dancingleaves ..
Men think you're playing hard to get, therefore a challenge, men are competative creatures, and always strive to win.....
Why are you so negative with men, have you been in a difficult relationship.... not all men are egotistic, there are some men out there that could make you happy again ... if you're hurt or been hurt by a man, it takes a lot to gain trust and tranquility with one again. Find yourself first, then list out the things that you want in a man, or you may find yourself happier without one .... but as long as you don't let the anger change the person you are, try and find peace with yourself, then you can live the life YOU want.
Ginger