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dancingleaves

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Women Who Wake Up to Find They Hate Men.
Posted: 09-28-07 16:06pm

I've found myself not interested in men, sex, relationships, and that because I don't give a care, more men are attracted to me and I feel nothing but sick to my stomack when they are so egotistic about how much I should wont them. I am healing from year's of stuff. For the first time in my life and I am 42 I do not feel anything when men are around me but anger. I like the fact that I am numb, maybe it is not healthy. But why are men more attacted to me now?
NUMB BUT HAPPY
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Georgia59

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Posted: 09-28-07 16:28pm

While I would suggest therapy to help you deal with it, but since you seem to like it, that's ok for now!

Men can be silly, they seem to always want what they can't have.
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Mommy35

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Posted: 09-28-07 20:29pm

They are probably more attracted to you now, because you are not available to them. A lot of men don't want a clingy woman. They want someone they can be with on their terms. They probably think you are hard to get and that always makes people more attractive.

I'm sorry that you have such strong feelings. I hope you are able to work through it and find peace one day.
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Birch

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Re: Women Who Wake Up to Find They Hate Men.
Posted: 09-29-07 22:58pm

dancingleaves wrote:
I've found myself not interested in men, sex, relationships, and that because I don't give a care, more men are attracted to me and I feel nothing but sick to my stomack when they are so egotistic about how much I should wont them. I am healing from year's of stuff. For the first time in my life and I am 42 I do not feel anything when men are around me but anger. I like the fact that I am numb, maybe it is not healthy. But why are men more attacted to me now?
NUMB BUT HAPPY


Wow, I totally get this. I understand where you are coming from...

I don't know what's happened that makes you feel that way, but I can relate in a similar way...

I get sooooo gddnag irritated when guys have this heightened sense of entitlement, or like you put it; "so egotistic about how much you should want them". Like you enjoy catcalls, or comments about your body, or the obnoxious, "hey baby, what's your name"? I hate the whole phenonmenon that I think is moved along by porn - like a girl really, really wants a guy to come all over her face-the whole "here's my penis, I'm sure you just can't wait to get your face plastered by my semen" thing.

I just can't get over how obnoxious guys are out and about...do girls really respond well to the "hey baby, what's your name?" sleezing enough so they keep it up? Who are these girls?

Knock it off, you bloody garden implements! It's so annoying walking down the street anymore.
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Birch

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Posted: 09-29-07 23:00pm

Okay, sorry about that last post, I went off into my own alcohol induced world (this "Little Penguin" white shiraz is pretty good).

I did want to say to you dancingleaves that numb I hope you work this out, and I'm sorry about whatever has happened in the past that makes you feel this way.
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The Ginger 1

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Posted: 09-30-07 05:46am

Hi Dancingleaves ..
Men think you're playing hard to get, therefore a challenge, men are competative creatures, and always strive to win.....
Why are you so negative with men, have you been in a difficult relationship.... not all men are egotistic, there are some men out there that could make you happy again ... if you're hurt or been hurt by a man, it takes a lot to gain trust and tranquility with one again. Find yourself first, then list out the things that you want in a man, or you may find yourself happier without one .... but as long as you don't let the anger change the person you are, try and find peace with yourself, then you can live the life YOU want.

Ginger
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