Women Who Wake Up to Find They Hate Men. Posted: 09-28-07 16:06pm
I've found myself not interested in men,
sex, relationships, and that because I
don't give a care, more men are attracted
to me and I feel nothing but sick to my
stomack when they are so egotistic about
how much I should wont them. I am healing
from year's of stuff. For the first time
in my life and I am 42 I do not feel
anything when men are around me but anger.
I like the fact that I am numb, maybe it
is not healthy. But why are men more
attacted to me now?
NUMB BUT HAPPY
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Georgia59
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Posted: 09-28-07 16:28pm
While I would suggest therapy to help you
deal with it, but since you seem to like
it, that's ok for now!
Men can be silly, they seem to always want
what they can't have.
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Mommy35
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Posted: 09-28-07 20:29pm
They are probably more attracted to you
now, because you are not available to
them. A lot of men don't want a clingy
woman. They want someone they can be with
on their terms. They probably think you
are hard to get and that always makes
people more attractive.
I'm sorry that you have such strong
feelings. I hope you are able to work
through it and find peace one day.
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Birch
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Re: Women Who Wake Up to Find They Hate Men. Posted: 09-29-07 22:58pm
dancingleaves
wrote:
I've found myself not
interested in men, sex, relationships, and
that because I don't give a care, more men
are attracted to me and I feel nothing but
sick to my stomack when they are so
egotistic about how much I should wont
them. I am healing from year's of stuff.
For the first time in my life and I am 42
I do not feel anything when men are around
me but anger. I like the fact that I am
numb, maybe it is not healthy. But why are
men more attacted to me now?
NUMB BUT
HAPPY
Wow, I totally get this. I understand
where you are coming from...
I don't know what's happened that makes
you feel that way, but I can relate in a
similar way...
I get sooooo gddnag irritated when guys
have this heightened sense of entitlement,
or like you put it; "so egotistic about
how much you should want them". Like you
enjoy catcalls, or comments about your
body, or the obnoxious, "hey baby, what's
your name"? I hate the whole phenonmenon
that I think is moved along by porn -
like a girl really, really wants a guy to
come all over her face-the whole "here's
my penis, I'm sure you just can't wait to
get your face plastered by my semen"
thing.
I just can't get over how obnoxious guys
are out and about...do girls really
respond well to the "hey baby, what's your
name?" sleezing enough so they keep it up?
Who are these girls?
Knock it off, you bloody garden
implements! It's so annoying walking down
the street anymore.
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Birch
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Posted: 09-29-07 23:00pm
Okay, sorry about that last post, I went
off into my own alcohol induced world
(this "Little Penguin" white shiraz is
pretty good).
I did want to say to you dancingleaves
that numb I hope you work this out, and
I'm sorry about whatever has happened in
the past that makes you feel this way.
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The Ginger 1
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Posted: 09-30-07 05:46am
Hi Dancingleaves ..
Men think you're playing hard to get,
therefore a challenge, men are competative
creatures, and always strive to win.....
Why are you so negative with men, have you
been in a difficult relationship.... not
all men are egotistic, there are some men
out there that could make you happy again
... if you're hurt or been hurt by a man,
it takes a lot to gain trust and
tranquility with one again. Find yourself
first, then list out the things that you
want in a man, or you may find yourself
happier without one .... but as long as
you don't let the anger change the person
you are, try and find peace with yourself,
then you can live the life YOU want.
