How long have you been together? This is a very common symptom in relationships. People forget you have to work at it to make it keep working or everyone gets bored.

since december last year. He only works 2 days out of the week most of the time he has a great job but he is on call for it and i just stay at home. so i know he is not tired or too tired. Of course i know that relationships need work but u know i dont think he does

You are trying to get pregnant, right? Sometimes, instead of talking about it, guys get weird with their emotions on that subject. Maybe you could try talking to him about your desire for more closeness.

I know it sounds sappy and completely cliche, but date night once a week does work. Just the two of you. It doesn't have to be fancy but if it is just you two with no one else around, no responsibilities, sometimes that closeness can help.

Good luck!

i have talked to him about it, i dont know if he does not care or what We do the going out thing maybe 3 times a week we always have to have time to ourselves outside of him being at work and us being in the house. last week we went to 2 different fairs and we ate out more than we shhould but we got out!

sometimes you just need a little boost- you get stuck in a rut.

Try something new- a new toy, porn, a new scented/flavored/sensational lubricant, or even something as simple as a new position. Have fun with it.

Good luck!

did that too lol we have doen it all thats why i cant figure it out

That's too bad! I'd talk to him about it, tell him you want to spice things up. See what he thinks.

Good luck!

i will again