Why, why and why?

Don't say it like that of course! Present it in a mature fashion. If you are mature enough to have sex, you are mature enough to fess up to it and tell your parents.



Actually, reverse those stats dearie. Millions of teens are having sex WITHOUT condoms and ARE getting pregnant. Nothing against condoms, I used them for the first 6 months I had sex and they worked great. But I was way too paranoid to keep depending on a piece of latex to protect my uterus!



The problem is that when a condom breaks, most couples can't feel it. They don't know it broke until after sex. Secondly, even if he does pull out right when it breaks, you'll still get precum inside of you and that can make you pregnant too.


No, telling you mom ISN'T for you. It's for HER. She's your mother, she has a right to know you're having sex. That's just my opinion though.

It is also "for you" in the sense that it will help protect your health and safety. You will have easier access to birth control and pap smears if your mom is willing to drive you around.

As I said, I've provided you with information on how to get birth control without her knowing.

i dont think you guys should be telling her what to do
i also think telling your parents that you are having sex is not for everyone
i do not think you should be attacking her like that
condoms are very affective and just because you guys use birth control doesnt mean she should too
i never told my parents i was having sex and never would at sixteen
so i think you guys should leave her alone and let her make her own decisions
just because they are different from your does not mean they are wrong

Once again, I have given her the info she needs to get pregnancy control without her parents knowing. I just find her obnoxious because she just called me pregnant when I'm not... O.o Don't know where on earth she got that one from, unless she's talking to The_Girlfreind (who by the way got pregnant because she wanted to and her mother knew about it).

I'm 22 by the way, kiddo. I didn't drop out of highschool and neither did Girlfreind. She is being home-schooled and finishing her education. I am in college.

Plus, both she and I are moderators who are trying to HELP you. Insulting us is not a brilliant idea.

Being smart and being mature are two different things. I was 16 once as well.

so what you are trying to tell me is that , this girl who is using condoms and does not want to tell her parents that she is having sex because she doesnt feel comfortable is more iressponsible than thegirlfriend who did tell her mom and then got pregnant at 16 and is bringing a life into this world that she cant even support? no matter what she might say at 16 you are a baby yourself
yeah um that about ...makes....ABSOLUTELY no sense
sorry but i am with goodnightkiss on this 1

Girlfreind has monetary and emotional support for the child she is bringing into the world, she is emotionally mature and ready and it is a planned pregnancy. She is not alone in this. She CAN support the child, otherwise she wouldn't have gotten pregnant. The father will be in the baby's life and they plan on marrying. So yes, just like a 25 year old woman in the same situation, I feel she IS responsible. Then again I am 22 and if I became pregnant it would be an incredibly irresponsible decision!! Age has nothing to do with it.

Is she living life differently than you? Yes, but that doesn't make it wrong.

I'm sorry but you are in the boat of Misinformation with GoodNightKiss on this one.

Goodightkiss, you have your info. Go to planned parenthood.

I suggest this topic be locked as it has just now dissolved into personal insults via Hugs_kisses.