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Q: Pregnancy Test Is Positive - Home Schooled W/no Bf

asked by: sunshinebabygrl on September 27th, 2007

New User

Hi everbody, I havnt been on here in a while but know iam in big trouble. Yesterday I took a pregnancy test and it was postive. I don't know what to do or if I should tell anybody I took the test by myself because I don't want nobody to know and I kinda knew I was pregnant. I know I was suppose to break up with my boyfriend but I did and we got back together. And I don't even go out with him now because he broke up with me on the 16th so now if I tell him that iam pregnant I don't know how he's gonna take it and I can't tell my mother and I never been through this so I don't know what to do. I just wish none of this happen I can't even put in word how I feel I even stayed home from school today by telling my mom I didn't feel well and I know she can tell something is wrong with me because she even asked me yesterday is there something bothering me and I hope she dosnt ask me again. I just wish I would have listened to you guys and never went back out with him because know I realize he really dosnt care about me and thats hard to deal with.

Replies(13)

AyaMiyaki

replied on September 27th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

First things first. You can't hide your pregnancy. You need to be seen by a doctor and get health care. Tell your mom. I know it's scary, but you need to do it now. The longer you wait, the harder it's going to be - and the more her feelings are going to be hurt that you didn't come forward with this sooner.

sunshinebabygrl

replied on September 27th, 2007

New User

I know I can't hide it and soon iam going to start showing and I just don't know how to tell her something like this, iam scared to but I do wanna talk to her because I feel so bad about all this and just need someone to talk to.

mzLiLi

replied on September 29th, 2007

Experienced User

so did you tell your mother or your boyfriend

sunshinebabygrl

replied on September 30th, 2007

New User

mzLiLi wrote:

so did you tell your mother or your boyfriend

No I haven't told no one yet but thanks for asking.

sexxybexxy

replied on October 1st, 2007

Experienced User

hi, sorry for what u are going through. I know how it feels even though i have no parents. I was pregnant at 13 and thourght that if i told my older brouther who i call my dad he would flip. I sat down on the sofa with him and told him what i had done. He understand and said it was not my fault. What i am saying is pleaze tell your mom. Sooner or later. But sooner will be better as u will begin to change and u will get fat.
Good luck!!
tell me how it goes

jessamyn

replied on October 3rd, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

You cannot hide your pregnancy you could just yourself and your baby in danger... how do you plan to be a mother if you cant even take the first responsible step as to telling your parents and getting proper care

momtocolton

replied on October 3rd, 2007

New User

Hi There..

Tell your mom.. She will be there to support you through this hard time in your life.. Yeah I'm not saying she isn't going to be mad, sad or hurt but she will get over it and she will do what she can for you because she loves you... You need to tell her so that you can get to a Dr. and get checked out and on prenatal vitamins for your baby.. i don't know how old you are or what you are planning on doing but you have options like adoption... I would tell your mom you just need to tell her something and just tell her it won't get any worse because theres nothing she can do about it now it is already done.. Don't let her try to talk you into an abortion... I hope and wish that everything goes good for you and sorry it had to happen to you.. best of luck

CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd

replied on October 10th, 2007

Supporter

hi hun just wanting to know how you are doing have you talked to anyone yet

jessamyn

replied on October 11th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

Has anyone heard from her?

sunshinebabygrl

replied on October 16th, 2007

New User

hey thanks for the support and iam sorry it took so long to respond but I havnt been able to get on here lately but I still didn't tell my mom but I told my boyfriend and were back together now. But I don't wanna tell my mom and I was thinkning I should talk to my school counselor and see if she could talk to my mom for me because iam afraid to tell her and thanks again for the help everyone.

jessamyn

replied on October 17th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

That is another way of doing it... or having a sit down with your mother, your counselor,boyfriend, and yourself! even include his parents. if your counselor is willing

mzLiLi

replied on October 20th, 2007

Experienced User

jessamyn wrote:

That is another way of doing it... or having a sit down with your mother, your counselor,boyfriend, and yourself! even include his parents. if your counselor is willing

This sounds like a really good idea because your parents wont flip out with a school counselor in the room

sweet_mom

replied on October 22nd, 2007

Experienced User

My parents didn't know I was pregnant until after my son was born.I wasn't living in the same province as them,which is how I could keep it a secret.I felt really bad about not telling them and whenever I look at my sister's pictures of the day my nephew was born it makes me sad because most of the pictures have my mom and my nephew and my sister with her son.I don't have anything from that day other than my son.
When I took my son to meet his grandma we had a long talk and I found out that she felt worse than I did that I didn't tell her about my pregnancy.She felt like I thought she was one of those mother's that would freak out.I did think that,which is why you shouldn't heitate to tell her.Even if you think she'll freak out and not love you anymore,you might be pleasantly surprised.
For my mom it was just another child to love and spoil,she loves being a grandma.And she still loves me because I am her daughter and nothing will ever change that.

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