sunshinebabygrl
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Pregnancy Test Is Positive - Home Schooled W/no Bf
Posted: 09-27-07 10:29am
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Hi everbody, I havnt been on here in a
while but know iam in big trouble.
Yesterday I took a pregnancy test and it
was postive. I don't know what to do or if
I should tell anybody I took the test by
myself because I don't want nobody to know
and I kinda knew I was pregnant. I know I
was suppose to break up with my boyfriend
but I did and we got back together. And I
don't even go out with him now because he
broke up with me on the 16th so now if I
tell him that iam pregnant I don't know
how he's gonna take it and I can't tell my
mother and I never been through this so I
don't know what to do. I just wish none of
this happen I can't even put in word how I
feel I even stayed home from school today
by telling my mom I didn't feel well and I
know she can tell something is wrong with
me because she even asked me yesterday is
there something bothering me and I hope
she dosnt ask me again. I just wish I
would have listened to you guys and never
went back out with him because know I
realize he really dosnt care about me and
thats hard to deal with.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 09-27-07 10:54am
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First things first. You can't hide your
pregnancy. You need to be seen by a doctor
and get health care. Tell your mom. I know
it's scary, but you need to do it now. The
longer you wait, the harder it's going to
be - and the more her feelings are going
to be hurt that you didn't come forward
with this sooner.
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sunshinebabygrl
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Posted: 09-27-07 19:52pm
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I know I can't hide it and soon iam going
to start showing and I just don't know how
to tell her something like this, iam
scared to but I do wanna talk to her
because I feel so bad about all this and
just need someone to talk to.
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mzLiLi
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Posted: 09-29-07 22:57pm
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so did you tell your mother or your
boyfriend
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sunshinebabygrl
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Posted: 09-30-07 22:54pm
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| mzLiLi
wrote: | | so did you tell your mother
or your
boyfriend |
No I haven't told no one yet but thanks
for asking.
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sexxybexxy
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Hi
Posted: 10-01-07 03:09am
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hi, sorry for what u are going through. I
know how it feels even though i have no
parents. I was pregnant at 13 and thourght
that if i told my older brouther who i
call my dad he would flip. I sat down on
the sofa with him and told him what i had
done. He understand and said it was not my
fault. What i am saying is pleaze tell
your mom. Sooner or later. But sooner will
be better as u will begin to change and u
will get fat.
Good luck!!
tell me how it goes
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jessamyn
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Posted: 10-03-07 13:18pm
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You cannot hide your pregnancy you could
just yourself and your baby in danger...
how do you plan to be a mother if you cant
even take the first responsible step as to
telling your parents and getting proper
care
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momtocolton
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Hi There..
Posted: 10-03-07 15:56pm
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Tell your mom.. She will be there to
support you through this hard time in your
life.. Yeah I'm not saying she isn't going
to be mad, sad or hurt but she will get
over it and she will do what she can for
you because she loves you... You need to
tell her so that you can get to a Dr. and
get checked out and on prenatal vitamins
for your baby.. i don't know how old you
are or what you are planning on doing but
you have options like adoption... I would
tell your mom you just need to tell her
something and just tell her it won't get
any worse because theres nothing she can
do about it now it is already done.. Don't
let her try to talk you into an
abortion... I hope and wish that
everything goes good for you and sorry it
had to happen to you.. best of luck
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
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Posted: 10-10-07 21:35pm
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hi hun just wanting to know how you are
doing have you talked to anyone yet
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jessamyn
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Posted: 10-11-07 09:47am
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Has anyone heard from her?
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sunshinebabygrl
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Posted: 10-16-07 23:24pm
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hey thanks for the support and iam sorry
it took so long to respond but I havnt
been able to get on here lately but I
still didn't tell my mom but I told my
boyfriend and were back together now. But
I don't wanna tell my mom and I was
thinkning I should talk to my school
counselor and see if she could talk to my
mom for me because iam afraid to tell her
and thanks again for the help everyone.
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jessamyn
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Posted: 10-17-07 09:29am
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That is another way of doing it... or
having a sit down with your mother, your
counselor,boyfriend, and yourself! even
include his parents. if your counselor is
willing
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mzLiLi
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Posted: 10-20-07 21:11pm
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| jessamyn
wrote: | | That is another way of doing
it... or having a sit down with your
mother, your counselor,boyfriend, and
yourself! even include his parents. if
your counselor is
willing |
This sounds like a really good idea
because your parents wont flip out with a
school counselor in the room
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Posted: 10-22-07 16:15pm
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My parents didn't know I was pregnant
until after my son was born.I wasn't
living in the same province as them,which
is how I could keep it a secret.I felt
really bad about not telling them and
whenever I look at my sister's pictures of
the day my nephew was born it makes me sad
because most of the pictures have my mom
and my nephew and my sister with her son.I
don't have anything from that day other
than my son.
When I took my son to meet his grandma we
had a long talk and I found out that she
felt worse than I did that I didn't tell
her about my pregnancy.She felt like I
thought she was one of those mother's that
would freak out.I did think that,which is
why you shouldn't heitate to tell her.Even
if you think she'll freak out and not love
you anymore,you might be pleasantly
surprised.
For my mom it was just another child to
love and spoil,she loves being a
grandma.And she still loves me because I
am her daughter and nothing will ever
change that.
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