does anyone have any suggestions....day 4 and i still have a hard on

You should go to the doctor. I'm not sure what's wrong but I see on commercials that "If an erection lasts longer than 4 hours you should consult your doctor"

maybe but this is kinda a wierd problem to go see the doctor about. it would involve me having to talk to my parents about it first

That is when taking erectile dysfunction medications. Like viagra.

I would still advise you to talk to your parents. Your father would probably be best to talk to. As a mother, I wouldn't know what to think, plus I don't have a penis.

I've never heard of an erection lasting 4 days though. If it is causing pain like you mentioned, a doctors visit is definitely in order. Just talk with your father.

my mom wouldn't take it seriously....and i dont know my dad so idk what to do

and ive never taken viagra either

Why would you need to ask your mother to go to the doctor?
Just go. Even to the ER. You wouldn't need to explain until after the visit if you are that uncomfortable. Do you have a step-father you could talk to? Or some other father-figure? I ask only because you might be more comfortable talking with a male.
You don't have to talk about the masturbation part. Just tell them you are experiencing pain from an erection that has lasted 4 days. That is not normal and if it is painful, you REALLY need to talk to a health professional about this. Maybe the school nurse/counselor? Idk. Just anyone.

yeah tell your mom that you are serious and you need her to take you ASAP. This has got be very painful. I hope she helps you. It sucks when you are under age and have to rely on other people.

You NEED to go to the doctor. Act sick if you don't think she'll believe you, do anything you can to get to the ER!

just tell your mother your having boy problems and need to see a doctor , she most likely will understand immediatly and take you

If your erections last for more than 4 hours, no matter what your doing. You should ASAP visit your HOSPITAL and inform your GP.

Bollocks!!

Don't waste our time you silly little boy.

you need to tell your mother that you are having this problem. look you are human. how do you think you got her, it wasn't fairy dust. if you go to the emergency room without your mother knowing, and then she gets a bill, or later finds out, you are going to have an even bigger problem on your hands. your mother is never going to trust you and she is going to constantly be in your business after that. don't be embarrassed. i'm quite sure she'd want you to be better. you don't have to tell her that you masturbate. just tell her that you are having problems with urinating, she'll take you to the doctor. the doctor will discuss with you in private what's going on, and by law he can't tell your mom what you guys talked about. PLEASE GO SEE THE DOCTOR, before you lose proper function of your penis.

dude even if you havent taken viagra if your erection last more than 2 hours GO TO THE DOCTOR ASAP

16 year olds do have erections all the time. It is biology 101. But it goes away at some point. It doesn't stay hard constantly, right?

It will let up at some point and you'll stop getting hard from your penis rubbing against your undies. Or seeing a cute girls side boob.

You will outgrow this.

Ask any man, they will tell you they too suffered 'constant' erection.

Ok- I know it's late for this but-

If you really have had an erection for 4 days, (like it hasn't gone down at all, or you can't masturbate to make it go away) You NEED to see a doctor. Eiri was right. That can be a sign of some serious circulation problems. Blood isn't supposed to stay there for that long.

Over a year later just wondered how this story ended. Your symptoms sound like classic Priapism (blood flows in, but can't get back out afterward) and no fun at all. Awkward but not your fault and could happen to any male, even a virgin monk who never masturbated ever in his life. Hope it all turned out ok. Best wishes