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Q: Depressed When Masturbating
asked by: Katebomb on September 27th, 2007
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I masturbate every 2 days or so, clitoral only. I can never orgasm when masturbating through the vagina. It actually hurts. Often i've felt like i was having regrets after masturbating, but the next day im back to it. Please help!!
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Maji
replied on September 27th, 2007
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i can never masturbate vaginally either. the thought of sticking my finger in there sounds a bit scary, especially since i've always had really long nails. but yeah i've found that when you masturbate you have to have some sort of motive. i.e a picture of your bf/husband/crush etc, a memory of something sexy that happened...stuff like that. when i try to do it out of nowhere i always feel really unfulfilled. maybe thats your problem.
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Tylanas
replied on September 27th, 2007
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Re: Depressed When Masturbating
Katebomb wrote:
I masturbate every 2 days or so, clitoral only. I can never orgasm when masturbating through the vagina. It actually hurts. Often i've felt like i was having regrets after masturbating, but the next day im back to it. Please help!!


Almost all women masturbate clitorally! That's very normal!

And masturbation is normal too. You have NO reason to feel regretful, none at all!! Masturbation is healthy, safe, and natural.

Help with what? All I can do is assure you that there is absolutely no reason to feel guilty or depressed because of masturbation.
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Georgia59
replied on September 27th, 2007
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You don't have to have a picture in your mind or anything if that doesn't do anything for you.

There isn't any reason to feel bad about it, but if you can't beat the blues you are feeling a therapist would be able to help.
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Fighter_in_the_Sky_
replied on September 27th, 2007
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Masturbation is normal and healthy, people have sexual urges that need to be expressed, its part of human nature. No need to feel regret for masturbation. If you still feel guilty or regretful, try telling yourself that you are beautiful and womanly while masturbating.
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Jasmine86
replied on January 3rd, 2008
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Sometimes I feel depressed after masterbating as well, but mainly because I have trouble getting wet...I hear about women that get so wet that their sheets are soaking afterwards, and I just get a little bit of like, moisture! It's so disappointing!! Is this even normal?
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Tylanas
replied on January 3rd, 2008
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Totally 100% normal!! Many women have trouble getting wet; that's why lube was invented!!! You can also try masturbating in the bath.
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