please dont post in all caps

how old are you first of all? do you know all of the risks to sex? its not just about all fun and orgasms

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First, yes, hold old are you? Personally, if you don't know what an orgasm is, you should not be having sex! You don't need to have sex just because your friends are loose and irresponsible. If you're under-aged, you don't need sex at all. There is no point.

You need to discover your own body before even daring to put a boy inside of it. Have you even looked at your vulva (that's the outside of your vagina)? Go grab a hand mirror and a locked room, it's time you two met!

You are way too inexperienced and - I suspect - far too young to be having sex. This is not a bad thing! Remember, you get older every year. Be a kid. Enjoy life! Don't become another pregnant-teen statistic.

If your boyfriend bugs you and tries to make you have sex with him, dump him. He clearly only wants your body and not your heart or mind.

I agree with the gals here I'm afraid..Dont be pressed into sex just because your friends say so, its very irrisponsible IMO..Not to mention there is more to sex and partnership.
You will know for sure when you have an orgasm, its hard NOT to miss, but please think very very carefully about WHY you want sex.

i dont think she needs to be told that she shouldnt be having sex you guys?
she was just asking how an orgasm feels
i mean when you had sex for the first time you didnt want anyone telling you that you are way too young or whatever
i think if she thinks she is ready than she should have sex
just be careful and protect yourself
and you wont miss an orgasm lol if its going to be your first orgasm your in for a good surprise =] but one thing i do agree on with these girls is that if your bf is pressuring you do not have sex with him, dump him =]

and btw guys my friends is almost 18 and never had an orgasm and is a virgin, and this doesnt mean she is too young to have sex so i dont think you should start insulting this girl

When you have an orgasm- you will know. I promise! Try to have one from masturbating first- it will help your first sexual experience to be a lot better.

Also, before you try sex, there is also fingering and oral sex- both which can also give you orgasms but are safer and a nice way to learn about sex and be more comfortable before you try it.