Joined: 13 Aug 2007 Posts: 67 Location: texas, america
Looking For Womam in love with men with drinking problem Posted: 09-26-07 14:44pm
hello ,
this was posted over on recovery but not
hits look I just want to meet the other
woman who are in love with men who are
drinking or used to drink and who are
enjoying his sobriety while it lasts
.....some days you just need to be heard
....risk me ? I am a friend ....thank you
wazzywoman / robin
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ladyT02
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Sep 2007 Posts: 267 Location: ,
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Posted: 09-27-07 11:17am
My guy and me drink, but sometimes he end
up drinking a little too much. And when he
does he gets really irritable, moody. Like
2 nites ago we were a little buzzed and we
had a pillow fight and we were wrestling
and he was squeezing a little too hard so
I told him to stop. Telling him to stop
wasn't good enough for him so I had to say
I give up. I got irritated lol so I kept
telling him to get off. It got to the
point were I was so frustrated I cried. He
gets up and tells me why I just couldn't
say I give up, that my female pride was
what was harming me because I couldn't jus
cave in. So I got pissed and he kept
saying how ignorant and stupid I was for
lwyting my pride do that to me.
But when he.a sober he's the most awesome
guy. He.a ex military so he gets super
bossy and wants things done his way and
I'm defiant so its an interesting pair lol
but I love him regardless, but I always
keep my head up
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wazzywoman4ever
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Aug 2007 Posts: 67 Location: texas, america
Thank You For Sharing Posted: 09-27-07 17:18pm
my virgo and I don't have drinking issues
right now he quit ....it took leaving him
to bring it on faster they say he should
be doing it for himself and I requested
that he decide to live instead of self
destruct .......what ever it was that got
his attention it worked and I am enjoying
a sober guy.
If or when he goes back to drinking (only
beer if it matters) I dont want to leave
him again and I wanted to find friends
like you to have some place to sound off
and get feed back ......we are not even
married yet but to me its a piece of paper
I am already a wife in my heart and soul
he even calls me his wife ....he is 52
time to live healthy and enjoy his life
sober not blitzed to the point where he
can't remember one day to the next ....our
major issue has been unequal sex drive
....mine the greater ....he has requested
I work on my divorce thats the block to
being married already ....I am currently
helping my daughter she just had knee
surgery ....so he and I are separated for
the next few weeks ...m,iss the guy soo
much ....we call each other daily mostly
twice a day upon waking and at bed time
more on his days off .....he just got back
to work and is holding a full time
job...he makes good money ....but over the
course of last few years he has let his ID
and Drivers License go his ID is not
current this had nothing to do with me it
was before my time and I just have to cope
with it he came with this issue and what
are you gonna do?
we both have grown children none between
us and there can be none now . so here we
are new life together and baggage to
muttle through ....hey I appreciate your
reading and reply to me gonna add you as a
friend if thats ok
wazzywoman /robin
