Well i have this problem as well.
It is not red or swollen but you can feel it there.
Seems to be the size of a peanut as previously described.
1 thing i have noticed with mine is that it seems to have a 'tail'. The main lump is aprox 1 inch from my anus and there is what appears to be a raised line running from the lump to my anus. I have concerns that is is a worm of sorts.
It doesnt leak at all and is not getting any bigger. I have had it for about a month. It is very very itchy and the more i scratch the more it itches to the point it gets sore.
To continue with the theory it could be a worm of sorts, i take very very hot showers and after a few minutes it seems to receed back into my skin.
The is a post that mentions pilots get it and someone mentioned they ride a push bike a lot.
I think the common factor there is sitting for long periods of a time. I work in an office and am sitting for 50 hours a week. Could this be the cause?
Also i am a person that likes some anal action during sex with my wife so i am thinking this could also have caused it with penetration of a dildo as to reduce any pain it is best to push. The bigger the object being inserted the more one would push out.
This could explain a burst blood vessell.
Well i think the only solution is to see a doctor.
Good luck to all.