mag

your right there is no harm in trying

and after all if she doesnt want the baby then maybe it would be ebst if he/she was with you?

why are you selfish?
If she doesn't want to have her baby , and is going to give it up for adoption ... then why not have a family member adopt the child.
But there are pro's and cons to everything... It could possibly create future promlems if you adopted her child and later on she felt remorse or wished to take back her choice... it could cause a huge riff.
Also if the child were to find out (this is in case you werent going to tell her) She would have to see the person who gave her up possibly a lot more than she would like ... and to see her with her five children and be the only one the mother gave up could be a very difficult thing to take.
Also how old are you?
DO you have the means to care for a child?

hi ya thank you for your comments i am 25 years old and i have my own house with a garden and i have a very good job. I have sent a letter to her but with all the problems with the mail lately i have not got a reply yet. but when i do i will let you know what the outcome. hopefully i will get the baby which is due on the 29th march 2008 so finger crossed.
Thanks again for your comments

I see no harm in trying at all and showing her that you just want to offer all the goddness possible for the benefit and wellbeign of the child.

Hi ya again,
I have just found out the she is going to keep the baby and she told me that she don't want anything to do with me.
thanks for all your comments
madmags

there are other kids in the world that would love to have a mom like you. theres always adoption

for you to turn up at an adoption agencey. there are soo many kids out there who would love to be able to get the life you can offer one.

hope everything goes ok