I think you are fine.
A lot of people don't get girls right away.
Do you talk to them? Do you have a lot of friends that are girls?
Its only the the start of the year.

Hi MMA,

It's all about confidence in meeting girls. They sense when you are confident in yourself and can talk with them. Talking with them is something you can practice. If you have a friend who is a girl or even a sister, maybe they can help you meet some girls. In school, there are plenty of opportunities to meet them, you just have to get over the idea that you think you're nerdy.

Many girls like nerdy guys as long as they can relate to everyday things. You're a runner. What about going out for cross-country or track? You might meet some girls with your interests. Sometimes you have to put yourself out there and try to talk to girls to meet them. Being Chinese shouldn't slow you down because many girls like all races. Remember, it only takes one girl to get you and that could turn into a stable relationship.

Good luck.

I was 18, a senior in high school and on the football and track team when I had sex for the first time...I benched 345 when I was 195lbs...It is a lack of confidence(still is) why I didn't have all the girls falling over me back then... with women outnumbering men like 7:1 or something odds are pretty good of finding anything you want...

This is going to sound kinda weird but I wish when I was younger I would have taken a dance class(or something like that) to be one on one with a woman and overcome a couple of fears I still have to this day at 30 and I have 2 kids...

Yeah, im 16 also and have this same problem! Its all about confidence buddy, and iv got none!
Anyway, just walk tall and let yourself be known.

Haha this is the convention for men lacking confidence. Jeaston sir, there is nothing wrong or weird sounding about having to take a dance class. But MMA, you are only 16, so much life in you left! Guess what, I'm 19, still a virgin, still saved my first kiss. Hugging... well I lost count of that =). No, it really wasn't an issue about getting a girl, I just wanted to stay true to myself and find somebody that will mean something to me. Yes, it is all about confidence, women have some sort of radar that can sense your uneasiness and lack of confidence. I still have a lot of low self esteem issues from the past, but when it comes to socializing now, I just barge in there when I'm in the mood and talk like it was destined to be. My trick I guess is, you know how whenever you are considering talking to some girls, whoever, and you suddenly feel that freeze that gives you second doubts and nervousness that usually whispers "oh man, they are going to think I'm an fool" (this is what I feel at least), I just shove all that aside and go F it, I'm going in. Ask more questions (important ones though) then talking about yourself though, girls love a listener. But don't suddenly barge in with questions that don't pertain to the situation. I gained my self confidence with the help of meeting my lovable girl friends actually. They assured me of a lot of issues I had such as my looks. Turns out I'm not ugly haha. Good luck to you sir, don't let people get to you with bull about being chinese or nerdy, like everybody else here said, there is somebody for everybody, just a matter of whether or not you will be confident enough to seek them.

yo man i was in the same boat as you were when i was in highschool. No one liked me, i was on the wrestling team, im 5'4 i benched 180 and none of the girls would like me. I never been kissed until i met my girlfriend in sophtmore year of college, and trust me she loved it that i was a virgin. Dont lose ur virginity in highschool cuz that caca is just puppy love and not worth the heart break in the end. Save it for college where it really counts.