Hello,

Im writing in because im worried about weather my boyfriend and i will ever be able to have sex.

The present issue: When we attempt to have sex, putting on the condom, he looses his errection… We tried getting back the erection, but wasn’t strong enough. So I end up masturbating him until he cums. Condoms, he doesn’t like them, I don’t like them, so we’re going to have to discard that idea.

Past problems : He told me in a past relationship he couldn’t enter his girlfriend at the time, because his penis just wouldn’t go in :/ saying she was to “tight” and that this has give him a fear since then. It was over a year ago. He is 25, and I am 21. He’s penis size is rather average I would say, and don’t see how he could have much of an ongoing problem with this… He also told me he had phimosis as a boy, which is now cured.


For the time being we masturbate, rub against each other...etc… But its getting rather stressfull for the both of us… I don’t hassle him about it, I simply say that its ok, and well get through it.I don’t want to give him any anxiety on the subject as it would only make things worse. But it upsets him a lot …

I know its not me, because he’s crazy about me, but I just don’t get the whole story with the exgirlfriend :s seems a little strange, and im worried that like other guys, maybe it’s a maturbation problem :s however I dont think he masturbates much… hmm help!!

Anyone got any similar problems?