Maji
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Am I Still a Virgin?!
Posted: 09-23-07 19:22pm
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last night my boyfriend and i were getting
very physical and we had sex for the first
time....i think. i'm not sure if that was
his first time or not, but it was mine. in
fact...i've never inserted ANYTHING
whatsoever in my vagina. So when he was
trying to get inside me, we tried many
positions to let it in but it never
happened so we ended up just resolving to
rub crotches together basically. if there
was no insertion, am i still a virgin?
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leila778
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Grinding
Posted: 09-23-07 19:59pm
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"grinding" your genitals on each other is
not sex. it is simply sexual stimulation.
yes, you are still a virgin.
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Posted: 09-23-07 21:53pm
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Right, no penetration = still a virgin.
If you are going to be sexually active,
you need to be on birth control or use
condoms.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 09-23-07 22:10pm
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You also NEED to find out if he's had
previous sexual partners, or you could be
at risk for STD's. These are things you
should always know before you try any
sexual anything with anyone. And use a
condom. And birth control.
But no, rubbing like that is not sex, so
you are still a virgin, if that's your
criteria. You decide when you are not a
virgin anymore, because it only really
matters to you!
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Maji
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Posted: 09-24-07 23:23pm
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just so everyone knows, we used a condom.
seems like a waste of condom though..
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Georgia59
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Posted: 09-25-07 12:21pm
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It wasn't wasted if there was a chance he
had std's. He still could've given them to
you, even if there was no sex.
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Maji
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lol
Posted: 03-25-08 22:17pm
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I was reading this and I laughed a bit..
I'm DEFINITELY not a virgin anymore lol
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Posted: 03-27-08 00:09am
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Well I dunno... I think according to the
Bible oral and anal sex can also be a
cause of losing your virginity, lol. So
maybe just rubbing genetalia together
counts as sex by the Bible as well. I
think by the Bible if you have cyber sex
you lost your virginity too! Haha... not
that it matters. Ignore me if you're not
religious.
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Posted: 03-27-08 17:01pm
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| jinkazama
wrote: | | Well I dunno... I think
according to the Bible oral and anal sex
can also be a cause of losing your
virginity, lol. So maybe just rubbing
genetalia together counts as sex by the
Bible as well. I think by the Bible if you
have cyber sex you lost your virginity
too! Haha... not that it matters. Ignore
me if you're not
religious. |
I am religious, and the Bible doesn't say
anything close to what you've said. It
does not dictate how far in the penis has
to go for her to not be a virgin, and it
does not discuss virginity in relation to
anal sex or oral sex.
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Maji
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Posted: 04-30-08 20:43pm
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well if i followed the bible i wouldnt be
having sex with my boyfriend in the first
place..
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PlacidIntricacy
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WELL
Posted: 05-14-08 02:09am
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Technically. im actually going to say you
lose your VIRGINITY once someone has
sexually stimulated you... to the point of
an orgasm. the fact isusually thats
fitting for the definition of virginity.
so even getting fingered is losing your
virginity... but thats just TECHNICALLY...
but nowadays its been summed up to having
sex. so it all depends on how you look at
it.
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Maji
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Re: WELL
Posted: 05-19-08 23:44pm
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| PlacidIntricacy
wrote: | | Technically. im actually
going to say you lose your VIRGINITY once
someone has sexually stimulated you... to
the point of an orgasm. the fact isusually
thats fitting for the definition of
virginity. so even getting fingered is
losing your virginity... but thats just
TECHNICALLY... but nowadays its been
summed up to having sex. so it all depends
on how you look at
it. |
hah well i didnt orgasm that night lol
but i see what you mean. thats pretty much
how i see it too. thats why im sick of
this fad thats going around..all these
teens are participating in the "silver
ring thing" and thing they're all that cuz
they made a vow not to have sex till
they're married..yet they're still fooling
around. it sickens me.
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Re: WELL
Posted: 05-20-08 01:46am
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So I can have plenty of sex but no orgasm
and still be a virgin according to the
technical definition?
I suppose I'd rather teens "fool around"
then have all out sex-- as long as they
get that risks other than pregnancy are
still involved.
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Posted: 05-20-08 02:51am
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I am sooooo confused. Did you have sexual
intercourse or not? 9/23/07 you are asking
if you are still a virgin and then on
3/25/08 you said you were not. So, are we
responding to an ealier post?
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Maji
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Posted: 05-23-08 23:04pm
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| eeyore46
wrote: | | I am sooooo confused. Did
you have sexual intercourse or not?
9/23/07 you are asking if you are still a
virgin and then on 3/25/08 you said you
were not. So, are we responding to an
ealier post? |
yeah i had forgotten that i even posted it
and i was laughing at myself
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Posted: 05-24-08 02:10am
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Since this was 8 months ago, and you were
laughing at your earlier post, I gather
from that you ended up having sex with
this person. How old are you? Are you
using protection? I lost a brother due to
AIDS. People think STD's will not happen
to them, well, guess what - it did? We
lost him in 2001.
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Maji
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Posted: 05-24-08 02:27am
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| eeyore46
wrote: | | Since this was 8 months ago,
and you were laughing at your earlier
post, I gather from that you ended up
having sex with this person. How old are
you? Are you using protection? I lost a
brother due to AIDS. People think STD's
will not happen to them, well, guess what
- it did? We lost him in
2001. |
i've never had unprotected sex. and all
the sex i've had has been with him and
we're strictly monogamous. i believe i am
safe.
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eeyore46
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Posted: 05-24-08 02:59am
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I am so glad that you are having safe sex.
Birth control pills are good for
pregnancy, but as you know, do nothing to
prevent STD's. Make sure he is always
using a condom (even if you trust him
100%) - it is your life we are talking
about - I have experienced the loss!
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