your going to need a DNA test

theres no other way to know for sure ?? cuz i really dont want to tell my boyfriend... im only 16 and its hard enough beiing pregnant let alone telling him that and being a single parent..... so even if i had my period theres still a chance its the other guys

im 16 too and i know its hard being pregnant
but you shouldnt have cheated
lesson learned?

you need to tell your bf anyways its wrong to keep a secret like that from him...

ok so when did you have sex with your bf and when did you have sex with the other guy? give me the exact dates and ill figure it out for ya (also are you sure it was your period? and not implantiation bleeding maybe?)

well me and my boyfriend have sex on the 1st onf jan. and me and the other guy did to and i know it sounds like i am a hoe but i had never did anything like that before i was really drunk and my boyfriend cheated on me 7 times before that so ye ... but okay i had sex with my boyfriend first and later the other guy but the other guyy never came and how exactly do you know if it was period or not it seemed just like a regular period

If you had sex with them both on the same night the only way to know for sure is to have a DNA test.

ok so you had sex with the other guy and your bf on the same day?

if so then you will need a DNA test because either could be the father
even if the other guy didnt cum then you can still get pregnant from precum
so either of them could be the dad

and if your bf has cheated on you 7 times then why the hell are yu even with him? hes a jerk and he doesnt give a crap about you and you need to end that relationship. you guys dont know what your in for and you need to quit acting like kids before this baby gets here. cheating and partying and drinking...is tht the kind of example you want to set for your kid?! and you could have an STD or something because i hes sleeping around and your sleeping around you could have herpes or an STD.

please think about what you are doing because the baby you are about to bring into the world needs good parents and you guys seriously need to stop and think about all of this

you NEED to tell him that you cheated
and if he gets mad so what let him go because he cheated on you SEVEN times...why havent you left already?

If you had sex with them both on the same night the only way to know for sure is to have a DNA test.[/quote]

well see the other guy never really got inside me becuz he was to big and he never came he got like his head in and then stopped becuz we both felt wierd... i guess ill know when the baby comes out to becuz my boyfriend is half black and half white the other guy is all white

Well said!

well see the other guy never really got inside me becuz he was to big and he never came he got like his head in and then stopped becuz we both felt wierd... i guess ill know when the baby comes out to becuz my boyfriend is half black and half white the other guy is all white[/quote]
ok once again it doesnt matter if he never came in you the minute his penis goes in your vagina then you could get pregnant

and even when the baby is born and even if hes haf black half white half whatever you will need a DNA test because it will be impossible to know who the father is

i will be a good parent the whole partying thing was before i was pregnant and i dont sleep around... i already got checked and i dont have any stds or anything niether does my boyfriend he got checked to... but i know i should have left him along time ago but hes diffrent now ...
i just cant see the baby being the other guys if he didnt even get all the way in me and i had my period but if i concieved around the 22 then wouldnt it be my boyfriends sence i only was with the other dude once and had mym period

lol somebody had to say it

im 16 and its hard enogh being steretyped against for being a young mom

when girls like this come on here and post these things it makes me so sad to think of the situtaion the baby is going to be born into

theres a time to be a kid and a time to grow up...and haveing a baby in less than a month...being 16...its time to grow up!!!

It would seem more likely that your boyfriend is the father if you had your period after being with the other guy. Still there's no way to tell.

like i said it might not have been a period
it ould have been implatation bleeding which is just like a period sometimes! PRE CUM can get you pregnant no matter how much you want to deny it
he could have stuck it in for one second and pulled it back out and guess what?! YOU COULD GET PREG FROM THAT!!!

for every action there is a reaction and i hope you learned your lesson

i am being grown up and i didnt come on here for you to try to put me down i came on here to see if i could get some answers so i could make the best choices for my baby.... i was just woundering if theres was any way of knowing without a dna test

thanks so much for the help....

I know, it's a shame. I hate the looks I get from some people, even some people on here who judge based on age. They don't know me personally, they don't know my financial or mental capabilities. It's just frustrating. Even though I'll be 18 when the baby's here it's just another thing to deal with. I'm very excited about having this baby, as is my boyfriend and I know we will make wonderful parents.

im not putting you down im telling to the truth and giving you advice. and its good advice too.

and no there is no way to tell without getting a DNA test because you has sex with two guys the same night so either of them could be the father

you need a DNA test

Like everyone else has said, you are GOING to HAVE to get a DNA test, okay? There's really no way around it, if you want to know who the father of your baby is, then get a dna test. & you're going to need to tell your boyfriend what happened, are you going to want to live with that for the rest of your life? Sooner or later the guilt will catch up to you, it's better to tell now than later.

& please, after this baby is born, USE PROTECTION. I'm assuming that you weren't by the way you talk about what happened, and since you're pregnant. Use protection every single time, it's really not hard to slip on a condom.

good luck.

ha ha terra i was waiting for you to post on this