They would love to let people be people if people let THEM be people.
"Let them be" does NOT mean YOU get to discriminate and abuse them.
"Let them be" does NOT give anyone the right to kill someone else for being different, or to not hire them for being different, or to deny them basic rights because they are different.
Right now, homosexuals face abuse and the hand of frightened people like you. They can't get hired because people discriminate. They are denied basic rights such as marriage (to fellow homosexuals) under the religion they follow.
They are humans. They should not be abused. They should be able to be hired just like you and me. They deserve the right to marry someone of the SAME GENDER just like you have the right to marry someone of the opposite gender.
If something is broken, you fix it. America is broken.