I started cutting myself when i was 12 or
13- I'm now 17 and haven't done it for 2
years. now I'm sort of hitting a rough
spot in life and though I haven't actually
gone through with it I have been thinking
about cutting myself again lately... it
just sort of worries me. is this an
indication that this is something I will
be dealing with for the rest of my life?
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-21-07 12:26pm
could be but its hard to say
i personally want to say kudos thought for
stopping for 2 years!!! let me ask you:
what made you want to stop hun?
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keys101
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Cutting Posted: 09-21-07 12:57pm
well, i'm not really sure. I didn't really
decide to stop or anything, it just became
clear that it wasn't the thing to do, you
know?
thank you very much for the compliments.
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Re: Cutting Posted: 09-21-07 13:03pm
keys101
wrote:
well, i'm not really sure. I
didn't really decide to stop or anything,
it just became clear that it wasn't the
thing to do, you know?
thank you very much for the compliments.
well then you had the will power to stop
hun!!! why go back to a lifestyle thats
not right for you?! i know life is tough
believe me its not easy and sometimes it
sucks really bad
but no matter what dont ever hurt yourself
because of life
ity changes so fast lol
im suzy btw and im 16 yrs old and 28 weeks
pregnant with my first daughter
if you ever need help or support let me
know
im on here all fo the time everyday
because i have no life ol
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keys101
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Posted: 09-21-07 23:47pm
you're right- it's all pretty simple when
you think about it, eh?
Well suzy you're very sweet and
supportive- and to a complete stranger!
just imagine what a great mom you'll be.
I'm Paula, 17. it's hard for me to not get
pregnant, to be honest with you. I know
it's not the right time, do school first,
bla bla bla... but man i love kids. i can
just imagine having this beautiful fragile
life depending on me, you know? i probably
sound crazy lol...
Was this a planned pregnancy? if you don't
mind me asking...
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Posted: 09-21-07 23:58pm
keys101
wrote:
you're right- it's all
pretty simple when you think about it, eh?
Well suzy you're very sweet and
supportive- and to a complete stranger!
just imagine what a great mom you'll be.
I'm Paula, 17. it's hard for me to not get
pregnant, to be honest with you. I know
it's not the right time, do school first,
bla bla bla... but man i love kids. i can
just imagine having this beautiful fragile
life depending on me, you know? i probably
sound crazy lol...
Was this a planned pregnancy? if you don't
mind me
asking...
paula
ha ha it wasnt planned but it wasnt
prevented either
we had been haveing unprotected sex for 7
months but we knew it would happen
eventualy! and we concieved the night
before my birthday lol
im so exited! its a girl and we are
nameing her kristen taylor norris
cute huh?
you dont sound crazy
kids are a wonderful thing! just MAKE SURE
you are financially and emotionally stable
before you even think about haveing kids
lol
because its roguh even when you have alot
of money!!!
i think youll be fine in life and dont
even think about going back to your old
way! cutting is a dangerous thing and its
really not worth it! im here to help
anytime!!!!!!!
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keys101
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Posted: 09-22-07 00:14am
wow that's a very pretty name. before my
ex and i broke up we talked about having
kids- if it was a girl it was going to be
Bella Marie, and if it was a boy it would
be Robert Joseph. We had unprotected sex
for like a year and NOTHING! lol i guess
it's a good thing after all... but every
time i got my period i was like Damnit,
not again!
Yeah, I'm not going back to cutting- I
already have enough scars as it is, heh.
and i know better now, so what's the
point? someday I'll be somebody's mom, and
the last thing I would want to do is
expose them to that crap.
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Posted: 09-22-07 00:20am
exactly!!! think and look towrds the
future and dont dwell on the past or
present!!!
you know your pretty freakin smart
alot of people who cut go back to it
easily
good job for deciding not to hurt yourself
anymore! yu must be really proud of
yourself!!!
youll have kids when its your time and when it does
happen youll be a great mom!!!
oh and i love the name bella marie
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keys101
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Posted: 09-22-07 00:45am
thank you- you seem very smart yourself,
way to kill the teen mom stereotype haha.
thank you for saying all that suzy, you
don't know how important it really is.
I'm not so much proud as I am satisfied
and at peace.
And as for Bella, I know! I really love it
but since my ex adn i are- well, exes, i
would feel strange using it down the road
with Mister Right, you know?
