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Q: Paternity Tests
asked by: ms_chatz on March 25th, 2004
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Hey everybody! I'm new here and i'm writing an article on teens and paternity issues for planned parenthood.


Is there anyone here who's had a paternity test done or think they'll be needing one soon?

Really all i'm looking for is how did the paternity test make you feel? Was the guy the actual father? Do you think he's denying the baby because he doesn't want to have to help take care of it?


I don't need real names on this, just your age, gender and whatever you have to say.


Thanks to all who reply.


I'll be sure to put a link to the article when it's published.


Tamekia
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smith8500
replied on March 25th, 2004
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Hey
I have never had one done, but my friend did . I know all the inside info you need if that can help you.
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dominicksmommie
replied on March 25th, 2004
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Hey I had to have on done with my son
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JillMarie
replied on March 25th, 2004
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My boyfriend had one done once. It was the biggest mess! This girl had a baby in april 2000 and said it was his. He is a dark mexican and she is half mexican and the baby came out with white hair! Laughing he tried to get a paternity test done but when dhs finally sceduled it he was on the run from the cops and didnt want to show up just incase they were waiting for him there. They scheduled 3 all together and since he didnt go he was automatically determined to be the babys dad. He went to prison and when he worked in there they took half of his check each month which was only 10.00$ but in there that is alot! Laughing when he got out he called her and asked her to take a paternity test and she said okay. So we went and got him a loan for the money 450.00$ and scheduled it. I called her the day before and told her to remember the babys birth certificate when she goes and she told me that she talked to her lawyer and he said she dont have to go! Rolling Eyes so then we went through a bunch of legal crap hiring a lawyer ect. To get a court order to make her go! Finally we got that done and she went and took the test! It wasent very nerve racking cause he thought the baby could be his it was just because during the whole time he was paying her child supposrt and he would be so made everytime he got a check cause he knew the baby wasent his and he was never going to get the money back. Finally the result came: 0% probability he was the father! lmao!! But then it took a month or so to get the court ordered child support to stop and in the end he payed her 2000.00 in child support just for being a prostitute!
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ms_chatz
replied on March 25th, 2004
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Dominicksmommie, I sent you a pm.

Jillmarie, it's messed up that yall had to go through that. But it's good that he finally went and got the test, cuz i'm pretty sure she would have just kept on collecting his money (probably not even using it for the baby). But anyway, be on the lookout for a message from me.

Chandaloss, do you think your friend would give a little info on her situation? What are some of the things you know about it? Nothing personal, just general stuff.

Tamekia
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