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Tom4u
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Hand Jobs And Stds
Posted: 09-20-07 22:03pm
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I know this may sound like a stupid
question to most of you, but I was
wondering what the chances of me acquiring
an STD were from the following encounte:
I went to an asian massage place...the
girl was fully clothed but i was
completely nude. She gave me a 45 minute
massage, and at the end she stepped out of
the room, came back, and asked me if I
wanted a "happy ending", to which I said
yes. She got some lube from a bottle and
gave me a hand job which lasted less than
a minute. I never really got hard b/c I
was very nervous. Now I'm concerned about
STDs. Not too worried about HIV, but
mostly concerned with bacterial stds
(i.e., gonorrhea/chlamydia) and skin to
skin stds such as herpes and HPV. Can
someone tell me if I was at risk?
I dunno if it's worth testing, but I have
a g/f and I'm wondering if it's safe for
me to have sex with her. It's been 5 days
since this encounter, and I've been
literally feeling ill with a bit of a
fever. Also, I have pain when I urinate,
which could either be due to an std or my
prostatitis acting up, which it does every
once in a while. Any help is appreciated.
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Posted: 09-20-07 22:05pm
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an SEXUAL transmitted disease is
transmitted through SEX
you shouldnt be worried
and dont cheat on your g/f again
thats not very nice 
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prfctbyntre
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Posted: 09-20-07 22:10pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | an SEXUAL transmitted
disease is transmitted through SEX
you shouldnt be worried
and dont cheat on your g/f again
thats not very nice |
you can get herpes with out having sex. if
someone has a cold sore on their lip ,
touches it, then touches you down thurr..
you can get herpes
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Posted: 09-20-07 22:11pm
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| prfctbyntre
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | an SEXUAL transmitted
disease is transmitted through SEX
you shouldnt be worried
and dont cheat on your g/f again
thats not very nice |
you can get herpes with out having sex. if
someone has a cold sore on their lip ,
touches it, then touches you down thurr..
you can get
herpes |
yes but herpes arent on someone hands...
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prfctbyntre
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Posted: 09-20-07 22:12pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | prfctbyntre
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | an SEXUAL transmitted
disease is transmitted through SEX
you shouldnt be worried
and dont cheat on your g/f again
thats not very nice |
you can get herpes with out having sex. if
someone has a cold sore on their lip ,
touches it, then touches you down thurr..
you can get
herpes |
yes but herpes arent on someone
hands... |
no but if you touch a coldsore.. itll go
on your hand and pass it on
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Posted: 09-20-07 22:14pm
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ok well if you knowticed any coldsores on
her mouth and then they touched it and
then touched your penis then you might
have HERPES!!!
if not then your ok
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prfctbyntre
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Posted: 09-20-07 22:15pm
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no offence
but karma sucks.
you cheated, so who really knows what
youll end up having or not having
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Keeba88
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Posted: 09-20-07 22:17pm
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i wouldn't worry about it....
But what kinda massage place it that?
And not very nice since you have a gf!
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Re: Hand Jobs And Stds
Posted: 09-20-07 22:18pm
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| Tom4u
wrote: | I know this may sound like a
stupid question to most of you, but I was
wondering what the chances of me acquiring
an STD were from the following encounte:
I went to an asian massage place...the
girl was fully clothed but i was
completely nude. She gave me a 45 minute
massage, and at the end she stepped out of
the room, came back, and asked me if I
wanted a "happy ending", to which I said
yes. She got some lube from a bottle and
gave me a hand job which lasted less than
a minute. I never really got hard b/c I
was very nervous. Now I'm concerned about
STDs. Not too worried about HIV, but
mostly concerned with bacterial stds
(i.e., gonorrhea/chlamydia) and skin to
skin stds such as herpes and HPV. Can
someone tell me if I was at risk?
I dunno if it's worth testing, but I have
a g/f and I'm wondering if it's safe for
me to have sex with her. It's been 5 days
since this encounter, and I've been
literally feeling ill with a bit of a
fever. Also, I have pain when I urinate,
which could either be due to an std or my
prostatitis acting up, which it does every
once in a while. Any help is
appreciated. |
Herpes can be on any part of the
body-there are even ocular herpes- and the
virus can certainly be on someone's hands
and spread to your body. It is highly
communicable.
It is worth testing, absolutely, for your health
as well as your gf's health. I would
personally assist her in kicking your a55
if you gave her an STD b/c you went to a
massage parlour, suspected something was
wrong, decided not to test, and then
decided not to even tell her. 
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Posted: 09-20-07 22:18pm
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| prfctbyntre
wrote: | no offence
but karma sucks.
you cheated, so who really knows what
youll end up having or not
having |
yeah cheating is messed up
does your gf know?
you should tell her because if you DID
happen to get anything then thats unfair
to her that she could get it now because
you wanted a "happy ending"
and here is some info on herpes just to
clear the air
in order for him toget herpes he would had
to have either
anal sex with her
oral sex with her
or vaginal sex with her
The herpes simplex virus does not live
outside the body
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prfctbyntre
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Re: Hand Jobs And Stds
Posted: 09-20-07 22:19pm
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if my boyfriend cheated on me id cut off
his dick and shove it down his throat haha
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prfctbyntre
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Posted: 09-20-07 22:20pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | prfctbyntre
wrote: | no offence
but karma sucks.
you cheated, so who really knows what
youll end up having or not
having |
yeah cheating is messed up
does your gf know?
you should tell her because if you DID
happen to get anything then thats unfair
to her that she could get it now because
you wanted a "happy ending"
and here is some info on herpes just to
clear the air
in order for him toget herpes he would had
to have either
anal sex with her
oral sex with her
or vaginal sex with her
http://www.herpes.com/T
ransmission.shtml
The herpes simplex virus does not live
outside the
body |
you can get it from touching someone too.
trust me. i know.
and many doctors have told me it to
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young Girl
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Re: Hand Jobs And Stds
Posted: 09-20-07 22:25pm
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| prfctbyntre
wrote: | | if my boyfriend cheated on
me id cut off his penis and shove it down
his throat
haha |
bet he knows not to cheat lol 
yeah
which massage place did YOU go to?
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prfctbyntre
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Re: Hand Jobs And Stds
Posted: 09-20-07 22:26pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | prfctbyntre
wrote: | | if my boyfriend cheated on
me id cut off his penis and shove it down
his throat
haha |
bet he knows not to cheat lol
yeah
which massage place did YOU go
to? |
yah he knows not to, cause i told it to
him and hes like "yah im going to cheat on
the woman i want to marry"
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Re: Hand Jobs And Stds
Posted: 09-20-07 22:30pm
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| prfctbyntre
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | prfctbyntre
wrote: | | if my boyfriend cheated on
me id cut off his penis and shove it down
his throat
haha |
bet he knows not to cheat lol
yeah
which massage place did YOU go
to? |
yah he knows not to, cause i told it to
him and hes like "yah im going to cheat on
the woman i want to
marry" |
well just make sure you get the name of
this message place because apparently this
woman likes to offer "happy endings"
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prfctbyntre
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Re: Hand Jobs And Stds
Posted: 09-20-07 22:32pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | prfctbyntre
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | prfctbyntre
wrote: | | if my boyfriend cheated on
me id cut off his penis and shove it down
his throat
haha |
bet he knows not to cheat lol
yeah
which massage place did YOU go
to? |
yah he knows not to, cause i told it to
him and hes like "yah im going to cheat on
the woman i want to
marry" |
well just make sure you get the name of
this message place because apparently this
woman likes to offer "happy
endings" |
daniel would never go to a place like
that, when i always make his back feel
better.. hes too cheap to pay for that
kinda stuff lol
hes also self concience for a girl to see
him without a shirt on
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Re: Hand Jobs And Stds
Posted: 09-20-07 22:34pm
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| prfctbyntre
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | prfctbyntre
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | prfctbyntre
wrote: | | if my boyfriend cheated on
me id cut off his penis and shove it down
his throat
haha |
bet he knows not to cheat lol
yeah
which massage place did YOU go
to? |
yah he knows not to, cause i told it to
him and hes like "yah im going to cheat on
the woman i want to
marry" |
well just make sure you get the name of
this message place because apparently this
woman likes to offer "happy
endings" |
daniel would never go to a place like
that, when i always make his back feel
better.. hes too cheap to pay for that
kinda stuff lol
hes also self concience for a girl to see
him without a shirt
on |
lol apparently according to travis my back
rubs suck
maybe because i have the shortest attn
span possible 
we went to get messages together at the
mall once
i thought it hurt lol
the man was wayy too rough.
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Tom4u
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Posted: 09-20-07 23:25pm
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I didn't post my question to be judged by
a bunch of girls...I asked me question to
get an honest answer. What I did was
wrong, and I understand this. I love my
g/f more than anything and this wasn't
planned. I'm not going to say where this
place is, but there are hundreds if not
thousands of massage parlors that provide
happy endings. I thought it was safe, but
am now concerned about the exposure. I
just want to know whether I really have
anything to worry about, whether it be a
bacterial STD or a viral STD.
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Keeba88
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Posted: 09-21-07 09:10am
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Well i'm sorry that your feeling judged. I
don't think we looked at it like that. But
the only reason we asked where this place
was, was because i'm sure a lot of us
girls don't want our guys going there or
even one of us going there. And you say
that their are hundreds if not thousands
of place like this but yet i have never
ONCE heard about this 'happy ending'?
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prfctbyntre
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Posted: 09-21-07 09:18am
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| Keeba88
wrote: | | Well i'm sorry that your
feeling judged. I don't think we looked at
it like that. But the only reason we asked
where this place was, was because i'm sure
a lot of us girls don't want our guys
going there or even one of us going there.
And you say that their are hundreds if not
thousands of place like this but yet i
have never ONCE heard about this 'happy
ending'? |
i have but only in movies
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