Joined: 13 Jan 2004 Posts: 1436 Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
"normal" Paranoia? Posted: 03-24-04 21:54pm
Hey everyone, okay im wondering, is it
maybe more common to be extra paranoid
during pregnancy? For some reason all the
sudden I am paranoid that my boyfriend is
cheating or will cheat on me in the
future. . Thing is, I am with almost all
the time, and when im not, im talking to
him most the time.. Plus, he doesnt hang
out w/ anyone else besides me..I really
think deep down I know he wouldnt because
hes been cheated on in the past and was
sooo hurt and hes givin me no reason not
to trust him, but for some reason I keep
thinking about it! Im also paranoid about
other things too tho.. What do u think?
Thanks!
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noodleandshorty
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 1410 Location: burlington
Posted: 03-24-04 22:59pm
I get that way sometimes and we talk about
it and I know he wont do it because he has
been cheated on in all his past
relationships. So he has no reason to do
it. Its just our hormones and we are
going thru a bunch of things such as the
way we look. And if we dont feel
attractive anymore we may come to think
that he is cheating. I felt that way for
awhile but he said he doesnt care how I
look so its all good..Ur not alone I was
in the same boat.
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 03-24-04 23:18pm
It is having a lot to do with how you are
feeling about yourself right now. You are
getting bigger, you may not be having sex
as much and you arent feeling as
attractive... Life gets hard during
pregnancy, I am sure that you will be able
to make it through just fine.. Good luck
I am here for you if you need me!!
Stacie
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 03-25-04 01:39am
Yeah perfectly normal....I not only fear
that but I also have a fear that josh will
come out with 11 toes and no brain or
something.....Lol. I think it's all part
of being a mommy to be!
I think its from the pregnancy. I mean,
all girls have that paronia which is
normal and I think the pregnancy heightens
it!
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lee25
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Dec 2003 Posts: 1018 Location: new york
Posted: 03-25-04 03:57am
Yeah it's the hormones. My husband comes
home from work everyday picks me up and
drives me to school. Then comes home to
feed and bathe our son. Then goes back
to shcool to pick me up. Last week I
punched him in the face because I had a
dream that he cheated on me. I feel bad
now, btu then it felt so real. The man
doesn't drink, smoke, or hang out. He is
always home, he so boring sometimes
because he doesn't want to do anything.
He's not the type and I know that but when
your hormones are going crazy you feel
things that you normally wouldn't. Do
feel bad, just don't go to the extreme
like I did.
