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Q: I'm Just 15 and I have an EXTEREME bondage fetish
asked by: africain_grey on September 18th, 2007
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Thank God I found this place. I've been looking for help for a long time.

Well, my problem is I've just turned 15 and I have an EXTEREME bondage fetish. And I hate having it. I feel like such a perv. People say I't normal to have fetishes but I still feel dirty. Everyday I look at pics of peole tied up then I feel like I gotta mastrubate. It's like I'm possesed! I don't wanna do it...but I do, without thinking. Then when I'm done I cry. I'm even into extreme stuff like mummification.And I fantasise about being kidnapped.It interupts my schoolwork because I can't help thinking about people being tied up in class! It's GROSS. I would go to see a therapist but I DON'T want to tell my mum. no way. Is there anything I can do personally to stop the urge, and hopefully get rid of the fetish altogether?I also have a wet and messy fetish but I can deal with that, I dont have it as much as bondage fetish.
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Tylanas
replied on September 18th, 2007
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Re: Please Help, I'm Just 15...
africain_grey wrote:
Thank God I found this place. I've been looking for help for a long time.

Well, my problem is I've just turned 15 and I have an EXTEREME bondage fetish. And I hate having it. I feel like such a perv. People say I't normal to have fetishes but I still feel dirty. Everyday I look at pics of peole tied up then I feel like I gotta mastrubate. It's like I'm possesed! I don't wanna do it...but I do, without thinking. Then when I'm done I cry. I'm even into extreme stuff like mummification.And I fantasise about being kidnapped.It interupts my schoolwork because I can't help thinking about people being tied up in class! It's GROSS. I would go to see a therapist but I DON'T want to tell my mum. no way. Is there anything I can do personally to stop the urge, and hopefully get rid of the fetish altogether?I also have a wet and messy fetish but I can deal with that, I dont have it as much as bondage fetish.

I say you're normal too!!! I like bondage too heheh. Yes, it's a fetish and of course it makes you horny! Please please, don't feel bad about it! I've seen some mummification stuff too!

It's NOT gross. It is a bit of a problem because it interferes with your school work, but it is possible if you can get out the urges during the night, that you will be able too focus better during the day.
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africain_grey
replied on September 18th, 2007
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I don't mind actually having the fetish...I just don't like acting upon it. Yesterday I spend 5 hours watching people getting tied up on youtube *~*
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Tylanas
replied on September 18th, 2007
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africain_grey wrote:
I don't mind actually having the fetish...I just don't like acting upon it. Yesterday I spend 5 hours watching people getting tied up on youtube *~*

Acting on it is normal too you know XD What's the point of having a fetish if you don't enjoy it, right?
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africain_grey
replied on September 18th, 2007
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hehe I guess so! But I would rather act it out with other people...But I'm way to young for that! Do you think if I REEEALLY wnated to stop, and I really tried not to act upon it, I could? I'm not saying it's bad I'm just not comfortable with it.
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lonestarguy
replied on September 18th, 2007
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Re: Please Help, I'm Just 15...
Eiri wrote:
africain_grey wrote:
Thank God I found this place. I've been looking for help for a long time.

Well, my problem is I've just turned 15 and I have an EXTEREME bondage fetish. And I hate having it. I feel like such a perv. People say I't normal to have fetishes but I still feel dirty. Everyday I look at pics of peole tied up then I feel like I gotta mastrubate. It's like I'm possesed! I don't wanna do it...but I do, without thinking. Then when I'm done I cry. I'm even into extreme stuff like mummification.And I fantasise about being kidnapped.It interupts my schoolwork because I can't help thinking about people being tied up in class! It's GROSS. I would go to see a therapist but I DON'T want to tell my mum. no way. Is there anything I can do personally to stop the urge, and hopefully get rid of the fetish altogether?I also have a wet and messy fetish but I can deal with that, I dont have it as much as bondage fetish.

I say you're normal too!!! I like bondage too heheh. Yes, it's a fetish and of course it makes you horny! Please please, don't feel bad about it! I've seen some mummification stuff too!

It's NOT gross. It is a bit of a problem because it interferes with your school work, but it is possible if you can get out the urges during the night, that you will be able too focus better during the day.


What exactly is the mummification fetish? Sounds interesting.
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africain_grey
replied on September 18th, 2007
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mummification is basically when someone is wrapped up like a mummy so that they can't move at all
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Georgia59
replied on September 18th, 2007
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This goes for always, not just for your situation. It doesn't necessarily seem like you have a problem, you just need to think about it differently.

If you want to see someone about a problem, but you are too embarassed to tell your parents, there are always things you can do.

~ You can see your school counselor/psychologist/therapist/nurse. They are not required to tell your parents or anyone else for that matter unless your life or someone else's life is in immediate danger. They will keep your private matters private.

~ You can tell your parents that you have something wrong that you think you need help with, but not discuss the details of the problem. For example, if you think you have an std or something, just tell them you think there is something wrong down there and you should see a doc and you aren't comfortable with them coming in with you because you'll have your pants down. If it's a mental/emotional issue, just tell your parents that you're having a hard time dealing with some stuff and you want to talk to a professional. They will most likely do what you ask because they care, ultimately, about your health and well-being.

Don't let embarassment keep you from being healthy and happy.

That being said, if you still think you need to talk to someone about your fetish (and perhaps how to express it in a healthy way) a therapist would be able to help you with that.
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Tylanas
replied on September 18th, 2007
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africain_grey wrote:
hehe I guess so! But I would rather act it out with other people...But I'm way to young for that! Do you think if I REEEALLY wnated to stop, and I really tried not to act upon it, I could? I'm not saying it's bad I'm just not comfortable with it.

Why can't you just enjoy it as a personal thing now, and then when you feel you're old enough, get in to it?
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none_tea
replied on September 22nd, 2007
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Heh
lol i try to watch that what you sid a people tied up hahah and theres nothing i can feel .. but its funny hahahhhaha


i dont want to be ties but i want to tied someone lol
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