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Hi there, didnt know where else to turn, need some advice. Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs now and im heavily pregnant with our 2nd child. I no when you have children your sex life goes down hill. But since ive been pregnant with our 2nd child we have had sex once. I dont want it all the time, even a kiss or cuddle every now and then would be nice. I dont no what else to do. Has he gone off me? Does he want someone else? He says he hasnt got no sex drive, but he masterbates nearly ever night, usually in the bath. Its getting me down, i feel fat and ugly and this doesnt help. If my own boyfriend doesnt want to be close to me, then what does that say about me?
Any advice, please!!
Della
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replied September 18th, 2007
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Re: Boyfriend Wont Have Sex With Me!!
Della1987 wrote:
Hi there, didnt know where else to turn, need some advice. Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs now and im heavily pregnant with our 2nd child. I no when you have children your sex life goes down hill. But since ive been pregnant with our 2nd child we have had sex once. I dont want it all the time, even a kiss or cuddle every now and then would be nice. I dont no what else to do. Has he gone off me? Does he want someone else? He says he hasnt got no sex drive, but he masterbates nearly ever night, usually in the bath. Its getting me down, i feel fat and ugly and this doesnt help. If my own boyfriend doesnt want to be close to me, then what does that say about me?
Any advice, please!!
Della


Della have you ask him? Some men have a hard time having sex with a pregnant woman. Just tell him how you feel and ask him. In a nice way. Not mean just tell him it hurts you that he is distant and is it just beacuse you are pregnant? Be honest!
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replied September 18th, 2007
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The two most common reasons for low libido in men (as I have read) is stress resulting from money and stress resulting from a job. Are either of these possible? I know financial concerns are usually present when one is expecting their second.

Congrats, by the way!

But I'd talk to him. He may just be freaked about the pregnancy thing.
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replied September 18th, 2007
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dont feel fat and ugly Sad

you are pregnant and beautiful!!!

and sometimes guys are just wierd and dont want to have sex during pregnancy. you may want to talk to him. he could just be scared or something?
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