Hi Jeanette, me me me i have it, exactly as you described. i am on to the ears!!! i'm cindy. I belong to a menieres group as well, where i am learning that menieres seems to have the same exact EAR symptoms, as TMJ, so there you have it. My ear problems are just like yours and i have tmj causing it, well technically my upper neck is doing it. i KNOW how bad it is, it drives me NUTS, especially the ear pressure, which i had long time ago , but i remember THAT very well. i have had ear problems for 7 years. i am always searching for a ear answer, thats what i do in my spare time, and hang out at groups to give moral support!!! i fixed my ears with a snap on earring, but no one believes me.LOL still experimenting on my self..... anyway you will find company right here, alot of us have the ear problems, so you are not alone. dont be scared!!!! Love cindy