sorry its been a long time but no one has replyed until now.
ok thanks for the repl,
my body has recoverd from eveything now,still go to the loo for a wee alot (but depending on how much i have to drink etc like i pint of beer i will go alot so i have stopped drinking now).
i also had or have been having a bad state of depression again which is now under control via fluoxotine and regualr seesions with my counciller,oh and as well martial arts yes back training now.
I carnt help but feel is that my body has been telling me that i have been unhappy for ages the more i look into the past and i think this is what triggerd the prostate problem with being so depressed for a long time my body just gave up as it was depressed which a simular thing happend many years ago,my body just broke down and the depression set in after suspected meningitus think to much work and stress and getting not being happy took its toll on me again(bit of a long story).
iam still on the tamulosin after the doctors have told me to keep taking for a bit longer so we will have to see what happens.
ok so stopped drinking alcahol,back on the anti"ds and training in mma which is mixed martial arts,and i have just got an alotment with my freind, starting to get out more and confidence is starting to come back once again,still get lonly from time to time which i struggle with but iam getting there,there seems to be thearpy through martial arts and digging the alotment over he he
well please feel free to say hi or any questios anybody has feel free to ask away all the best
andy