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Jasonsbaby

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Pulling Out? Posted: 09-16-07 12:47pm


I have been on Lutera for a month and a week now. My boyfriend hates to have to pull out and most condoms i'm allergic to. Is it safe if he cums in me while i'm on birth control. I do take my pills at the same time everyday without fail.

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Posted: 09-16-07 13:39pm


you are on the pill so you are protected! and by the way pulling out doesnt do anything. pre cum can get you pregnant so it wouldnt matter if he pulled out or not

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Posted: 09-16-07 13:40pm

the_girlfreind wrote:

you are on the pill so you are protected! and by the way pulling out doesnt do anything. pre ejaculate can get you pregnant so it wouldnt matter if he pulled out or not

Well before I was put on birth control he would pull out and i never got pregnant thank goodness.

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Posted: 09-16-07 13:43pm


Ahhh this is very good to know! I have three morning after pills that i got with my birth control and the boyfriend was excited so that he wouldn't have to pull out 3 times lol (as in he would blow it in me and then i would just take the plan b). But thats good to know!

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Posted: 09-16-07 13:54pm

Keeba88 wrote:

Ahhh this is very good to know! I have three morning after pills that i got with my birth control and the boyfriend was excited so that he wouldn't have to pull out 3 times lol (as in he would blow it in me and then i would just take the plan b). But thats good to know!

Lol. Hope you guys have fun. My boyfriend hates to pull out and seeing as i'm allergic to most condoms (weird) I got on bc so he wouldn't have to pull out nor use a condom. Hes really happy about it. But the only problem is when will I see him next we live 2 hours apart cause his mom just moved him. We're going to make it work. Though now sex is kinda important when he comes down.

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Posted: 09-16-07 14:09pm

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Keeba88 wrote:

I bet you guys have fun lol Very
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He will be glad to hear this...although i'm not sure he will want to beleve it just cause he doesn't want a kid yet (i'm 19 and hes 20, so its still a little early for that). But i'll let him read this and maybe he'll believe it. So anything you guys would like to add to convince him would be sweet and very well appreciated!

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Posted: 09-16-07 14:39pm

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Jasonsbaby wrote:

Keeba88 wrote:

I bet you guys have fun lol Very
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Well his veiws on birth control are "its 99% effective why use condoms you hate them and so do I." Although hes not the one allergic to them he hates them. My nurse said to wait a month before having unprotected sex and so we did even though we didn't want to. We're both 16 and aren't ready for a kid either. I kinda agree with his view on birth control seeing as I was put on it since i'm allergic to condoms and i wanted my period regular.

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Posted: 09-16-07 15:00pm

Jasonsbaby wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

you are on the pill so you are protected! and by the way pulling out doesnt do anything. pre ejaculate can get you pregnant so it wouldnt matter if he pulled out or not

Well before I was put on birth control he would pull out and i never got pregnant thank goodness.

umm it doesnt matter

i had unrotected sex for SEVEN months and didnt get pregnant
guess what? now i am

pre cum can get you preg and if he pulls out or not doesnt matter. you can still get pregnant
but you are on BC pills so you are protected

and just another thing... soe women are allergic to latex condoms. there are condoms you can buy that aarent made of latex but they are friggen expensive

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Posted: 09-16-07 15:05pm

the_girlfreind wrote:

Jasonsbaby wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

you are on the pill so you are protected! and by the way pulling out doesnt do anything. pre ejaculate can get you pregnant so it wouldnt matter if he pulled out or not

Well before I was put on birth control he would pull out and i never got pregnant thank goodness.

umm it doesnt matter

i had unrotected sex for SEVEN months and didnt get pregnant
guess what? now i am

pre ejaculate can get you preg and if he pulls out or not doesnt matter. you can still get pregnant
but you are on BC pills so you are protected

and just another thing... soe women are allergic to latex condoms. there are condoms you can buy that aarent made of latex but they are friggen expensive

Just a quick question where you on the pill? You made it sound like your not but i'm just curious. Heck i have no money he has the money i have to pay for a cell phone bill and everything else i want to do with my friends so i have to do stuff around the house to make up for it. It took me months of finding dimes and stuff laying around to save up for some condoms.

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Posted: 09-16-07 15:08pm

Jasonsbaby wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

Jasonsbaby wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

you are on the pill so you are protected! and by the way pulling out doesnt do anything. pre ejaculate can get you pregnant so it wouldnt matter if he pulled out or not

Well before I was put on birth control he would pull out and i never got pregnant thank goodness.

lol nope wasnt on the pill
but women can still get pregnant while on the pill or while using any form of birth control!!!

planned parenthood gives out condoms for free! not sure if they give out the non latex ones though Confused

kudos for being protected while haveing sex!!! you said your 16 right?
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Posted: 09-16-07 15:11pm


Well neither myself or my boyfriend are allergic to condoms...he just claims that they are to thick and he can't feel anything! So thats part of the reason i went on BC...and for cramps and to knowwhen i'm getting my period. But yea! i'm excited

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Posted: 09-16-07 15:11pm

the_girlfreind wrote:

Jasonsbaby wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

Jasonsbaby wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

you are on the pill so you are protected! and by the way pulling out doesnt do anything. pre ejaculate can get you pregnant so it wouldnt matter if he pulled out or not

Well before I was put on birth control he would pull out and i never got pregnant thank goodness.

kudos for being protected while haveing sex!!! you said your 16 right?
me too Very
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Yep i'm 16. I go to the health department we don't have a planned parenthood here. My birth control is free as for the condoms they don't have the non latex ones. They said I would be fine after a month and hey its been a month and a week so yay.

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Posted: 09-16-07 15:14pm

Keeba88 wrote:

Well neither myself or my boyfriend are allergic to condoms...he just claims that they are to thick and he can't feel anything! So thats part of the reason i went on BC...and for cramps and to knowwhen i'm getting my period. But yea! Very
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i'm excited

Lol thats another reason he hates them. He says he feel as much. We've tried the really thins ones and still feels the same to me though he says it feels a bit better to him. And for the period that was one reason i wanted on bc. We both think its odd knowing when my period is going to come now. He thinks not having a period every month is not healthy. But i'm trying to talk him into letting me switch my period cycle hopefully he says its fine for one month. Have fun.

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Posted: 09-16-07 15:15pm

Keeba88 wrote:

i'm excited

lol he can still feel sex even with a condom on!
thats a cheap excuse boys use to get out of useing one Wink

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Posted: 09-16-07 15:17pm

the_girlfreind wrote:

Keeba88 wrote:

i'm excited

lol he can still feel sex even with a condom on!
thats a cheap excuse boys use to get out of useing one Wink

Ok so it is a excuse but I can't feel as much with him using one. We can still feel sex just not as good and its not as much fun.

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Posted: 09-16-07 15:19pm

Jasonsbaby wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

Keeba88 wrote:

i'm excited

lol he can still feel sex even with a condom on!
thats a cheap excuse boys use to get out of useing one Wink

Ok so it is a excuse but I can't feel as much with him using one. We can still feel sex just not as good and its not as much fun.

yeah well tell him that being pregnant aint much fun either Wink

i dont care if he couldnt feel it at all lol
if YOu dont want kids then YOU make him wrap his willy
no matter how much of a "feeling" you loose Wink

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Posted: 09-16-07 15:21pm

the_girlfreind wrote:

Jasonsbaby wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

Keeba88 wrote:

i'm excited

lol he can still feel sex even with a condom on!
thats a cheap excuse boys use to get out of useing one Wink

Ok so it is a excuse but I can't feel as much with him using one. We can still feel sex just not as good and its not as much fun.

yeah well tell him that being pregnant aint much fun either Wink

i dont care if he couldnt feel it at all lol
if YOu dont want kids then YOU make him wrap his willy
no matter how much of a "feeling" you loose Wink

Well come next year it won't be that big of a deal. I would still want him to use condoms but i'm tired of stinging and rashes down there that mess hurts.

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Posted: 09-16-07 15:26pm

Jasonsbaby wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

Jasonsbaby wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

Keeba88 wrote:

i'm excited

lol he can still feel sex even with a condom on!
thats a cheap excuse boys use to get out of useing one Wink

Ok so it is a excuse but I can't feel as much with him using one. We can still feel sex just not as good and its not as much fun.

yeah well tell him that being pregnant aint much fun either Wink

i dont care if he couldnt feel it at all lol
if YOu dont want kids then YOU make him wrap his willy
no matter how much of a "feeling" you loose Wink

Well come next year it won't be that big of a deal. I would still want him to use condoms but i'm tired of stinging and rashes down there that mess hurts.

ooh yeah thats not good Sad

have you tried usuing spremacide maybe?

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Posted: 09-16-07 15:27pm

the_girlfreind wrote:

Jasonsbaby wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

Jasonsbaby wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

Keeba88 wrote:

i'm excited

lol he can still feel sex even with a condom on!
thats a cheap excuse boys use to get out of useing one Wink

Ok so it is a excuse but I can't feel as much with him using one. We can still feel sex just not as good and its not as much fun.

yeah well tell him that being pregnant aint much fun either Wink

i dont care if he couldnt feel it at all lol
if YOu dont want kids then YOU make him wrap his willy
no matter how much of a "feeling" you loose Wink

Well come next year it won't be that big of a deal. I would still want him to use condoms but i'm tired of stinging and rashes down there that mess hurts.

ooh yeah thats not good Sad

have you tried usuing spremacide maybe?

No we haven't. But after reading what some of the girls have to say about it I'm not sure i want to.

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Posted: 09-16-07 15:31pm


theres lots of methods of birth control (besides condoms and the pill) there are: spermacide IUD nuvaring sponges femecon FE (chewable BC pill) abstenece (the only real way not to get pregnant because no matter what you use you can still get preg) depo shot the patch