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Jasonsbaby
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Pulling Out?
Posted: 09-16-07 12:47pm
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I have been on Lutera for a month and a
week now. My boyfriend hates to have to
pull out and most condoms i'm allergic to.
Is it safe if he cums in me while i'm on
birth control. I do take my pills at the
same time everyday without fail.
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Posted: 09-16-07 13:39pm
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you are on the pill so you are protected!
and by the way pulling out doesnt do
anything. pre cum can get you pregnant so
it wouldnt matter if he pulled out or not
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Jasonsbaby
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Posted: 09-16-07 13:40pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | you are on the pill so you
are protected! and by the way pulling out
doesnt do anything. pre ejaculate can get
you pregnant so it wouldnt matter if he
pulled out or
not |
Well before I was put on birth control he
would pull out and i never got pregnant
thank goodness.
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Keeba88
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Posted: 09-16-07 13:43pm
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Ahhh this is very good to know! I have
three morning after pills that i got with
my birth control and the boyfriend was
excited so that he wouldn't have to pull
out 3 times lol (as in he would blow it in
me and then i would just take the plan b).
But thats good to know!
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Jasonsbaby
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Posted: 09-16-07 13:54pm
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| Keeba88
wrote: | | Ahhh this is very good to
know! I have three morning after pills
that i got with my birth control and the
boyfriend was excited so that he wouldn't
have to pull out 3 times lol (as in he
would blow it in me and then i would just
take the plan b). But thats good to
know! |
Lol. Hope you guys have fun. My boyfriend
hates to pull out and seeing as i'm
allergic to most condoms (weird) I got on
bc so he wouldn't have to pull out nor use
a condom. Hes really happy about it. But
the only problem is when will I see him
next we live 2 hours apart cause his mom
just moved him. We're going to make it
work. Though now sex is kinda important
when he comes down.
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Keeba88
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Posted: 09-16-07 14:09pm
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| Jasonsbaby
wrote: | | Keeba88
wrote: | | Ahhh this is very good to
know! I have three morning after pills
that i got with my birth control and the
boyfriend was excited so that he wouldn't
have to pull out 3 times lol (as in he
would blow it in me and then i would just
take the plan b). But thats good to
know! |
Lol. Hope you guys have fun. My boyfriend
hates to pull out and seeing as i'm
allergic to most condoms (weird) I got on
bc so he wouldn't have to pull out nor use
a condom. Hes really happy about it. But
the only problem is when will I see him
next we live 2 hours apart cause his mom
just moved him. We're going to make it
work. Though now sex is kinda important
when he comes
down. |
I bet you guys have fun lol He will be
glad to hear this...although i'm not sure
he will want to beleve it just cause he
doesn't want a kid yet (i'm 19 and hes 20,
so its still a little early for that). But
i'll let him read this and maybe he'll
believe it. So anything you guys would
like to add to convince him would be sweet
and very well appreciated!
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Jasonsbaby
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Posted: 09-16-07 14:39pm
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| Keeba88
wrote: | | Jasonsbaby
wrote: | | Keeba88
wrote: | | Ahhh this is very good to
know! I have three morning after pills
that i got with my birth control and the
boyfriend was excited so that he wouldn't
have to pull out 3 times lol (as in he
would blow it in me and then i would just
take the plan b). But thats good to
know! |
Lol. Hope you guys have fun. My boyfriend
hates to pull out and seeing as i'm
allergic to most condoms (weird) I got on
bc so he wouldn't have to pull out nor use
a condom. Hes really happy about it. But
the only problem is when will I see him
next we live 2 hours apart cause his mom
just moved him. We're going to make it
work. Though now sex is kinda important
when he comes
down. |
I bet you guys have fun lol He will be
glad to hear this...although i'm not sure
he will want to beleve it just cause he
doesn't want a kid yet (i'm 19 and hes 20,
so its still a little early for that). But
i'll let him read this and maybe he'll
believe it. So anything you guys would
like to add to convince him would be sweet
and very well
appreciated! |
Well his veiws on birth control are "its
99% effective why use condoms you hate
them and so do I." Although hes not the
one allergic to them he hates them. My
nurse said to wait a month before having
unprotected sex and so we did even though
we didn't want to. We're both 16 and
aren't ready for a kid either. I kinda
agree with his view on birth control
seeing as I was put on it since i'm
allergic to condoms and i wanted my period
regular.
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-16-07 15:00pm
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| Jasonsbaby
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | you are on the pill so you
are protected! and by the way pulling out
doesnt do anything. pre ejaculate can get
you pregnant so it wouldnt matter if he
pulled out or
not |
Well before I was put on birth control he
would pull out and i never got pregnant
thank
goodness. |
umm it doesnt matter
i had unrotected sex for SEVEN months and
didnt get pregnant
guess what? now i am
pre cum can get you preg and if he pulls
out or not doesnt matter. you can still
get pregnant
but you are on BC pills so you are
protected
and just another thing... soe women are
allergic to latex condoms. there are
condoms you can buy that aarent made of
latex but they are friggen expensive
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Jasonsbaby
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Posted: 09-16-07 15:05pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | Jasonsbaby
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | you are on the pill so you
are protected! and by the way pulling out
doesnt do anything. pre ejaculate can get
you pregnant so it wouldnt matter if he
pulled out or
not |
Well before I was put on birth control he
would pull out and i never got pregnant
thank
goodness. |
umm it doesnt matter
i had unrotected sex for SEVEN months and
didnt get pregnant
guess what? now i am
pre ejaculate can get you preg and if he
pulls out or not doesnt matter. you can
still get pregnant
but you are on BC pills so you are
protected
and just another thing... soe women are
allergic to latex condoms. there are
condoms you can buy that aarent made of
latex but they are friggen
expensive |
Just a quick question where you on the
pill? You made it sound like your not but
i'm just curious. Heck i have no money he
has the money i have to pay for a cell
phone bill and everything else i want to
do with my friends so i have to do stuff
around the house to make up for it. It
took me months of finding dimes and stuff
laying around to save up for some condoms.
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-16-07 15:08pm
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| Jasonsbaby
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | Jasonsbaby
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | you are on the pill so you
are protected! and by the way pulling out
doesnt do anything. pre ejaculate can get
you pregnant so it wouldnt matter if he
pulled out or
not |
Well before I was put on birth control he
would pull out and i never got pregnant
thank
goodness. |
umm it doesnt matter
i had unrotected sex for SEVEN months and
didnt get pregnant
guess what? now i am
pre ejaculate can get you preg and if he
pulls out or not doesnt matter. you can
still get pregnant
but you are on BC pills so you are
protected
and just another thing... soe women are
allergic to latex condoms. there are
condoms you can buy that aarent made of
latex but they are friggen
expensive |
Just a quick question where you on the
pill? You made it sound like your not but
i'm just curious. Heck i have no money he
has the money i have to pay for a cell
phone bill and everything else i want to
do with my friends so i have to do stuff
around the house to make up for it. It
took me months of finding dimes and stuff
laying around to save up for some
condoms. |
lol nope wasnt on the pill
but women can still get pregnant while on
the pill or while using any form of birth
control!!!
planned parenthood gives out condoms for
free! not sure if they give out the non
latex ones though
kudos for being protected while haveing
sex!!! you said your 16 right?
me too 
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Keeba88
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Posted: 09-16-07 15:11pm
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Well neither myself or my boyfriend are
allergic to condoms...he just claims that
they are to thick and he can't feel
anything! So thats part of the reason i
went on BC...and for cramps and to
knowwhen i'm getting my period. But yea!
 i'm excited
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Jasonsbaby
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Posted: 09-16-07 15:11pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | Jasonsbaby
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | Jasonsbaby
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | you are on the pill so you
are protected! and by the way pulling out
doesnt do anything. pre ejaculate can get
you pregnant so it wouldnt matter if he
pulled out or
not |
Well before I was put on birth control he
would pull out and i never got pregnant
thank
goodness. |
umm it doesnt matter
i had unrotected sex for SEVEN months and
didnt get pregnant
guess what? now i am
pre ejaculate can get you preg and if he
pulls out or not doesnt matter. you can
still get pregnant
but you are on BC pills so you are
protected
and just another thing... soe women are
allergic to latex condoms. there are
condoms you can buy that aarent made of
latex but they are friggen
expensive |
Just a quick question where you on the
pill? You made it sound like your not but
i'm just curious. Heck i have no money he
has the money i have to pay for a cell
phone bill and everything else i want to
do with my friends so i have to do stuff
around the house to make up for it. It
took me months of finding dimes and stuff
laying around to save up for some
condoms. |
lol nope wasnt on the pill
but women can still get pregnant while on
the pill or while using any form of birth
control!!!
planned parenthood gives out condoms for
free! not sure if they give out the non
latex ones though
kudos for being protected while haveing
sex!!! you said your 16 right?
me too  |
Yep i'm 16. I go to the health department
we don't have a planned parenthood here.
My birth control is free as for the
condoms they don't have the non latex
ones. They said I would be fine after a
month and hey its been a month and a week
so yay.
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Jasonsbaby
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Posted: 09-16-07 15:14pm
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| Keeba88
wrote: | Well neither myself or my
boyfriend are allergic to condoms...he
just claims that they are to thick and he
can't feel anything! So thats part of the
reason i went on BC...and for cramps and
to knowwhen i'm getting my period. But
yea! i'm
excited |
Lol thats another reason he hates them. He
says he feel as much. We've tried the
really thins ones and still feels the same
to me though he says it feels a bit better
to him. And for the period that was one
reason i wanted on bc. We both think its
odd knowing when my period is going to
come now. He thinks not having a period
every month is not healthy. But i'm trying
to talk him into letting me switch my
period cycle hopefully he says its fine
for one month. Have fun.
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-16-07 15:15pm
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| Keeba88
wrote: | Well neither myself or my
boyfriend are allergic to condoms...he
just claims that they are to thick and he
can't feel anything! So thats part of the
reason i went on BC...and for cramps and
to knowwhen i'm getting my period. But
yea! i'm
excited |
lol he can still feel sex even with a
condom on!
thats a cheap excuse boys use to get out
of useing one 
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Jasonsbaby
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Posted: 09-16-07 15:17pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | Keeba88
wrote: | Well neither myself or my
boyfriend are allergic to condoms...he
just claims that they are to thick and he
can't feel anything! So thats part of the
reason i went on BC...and for cramps and
to knowwhen i'm getting my period. But
yea! i'm
excited |
lol he can still feel sex even with a
condom on!
thats a cheap excuse boys use to get out
of useing one  |
Ok so it is a excuse but I can't feel as
much with him using one. We can still feel
sex just not as good and its not as much
fun.
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-16-07 15:19pm
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| Jasonsbaby
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | Keeba88
wrote: | Well neither myself or my
boyfriend are allergic to condoms...he
just claims that they are to thick and he
can't feel anything! So thats part of the
reason i went on BC...and for cramps and
to knowwhen i'm getting my period. But
yea! i'm
excited |
lol he can still feel sex even with a
condom on!
thats a cheap excuse boys use to get out
of useing one  |
Ok so it is a excuse but I can't feel as
much with him using one. We can still feel
sex just not as good and its not as much
fun. |
yeah well tell him that being pregnant
aint much fun either
i dont care if he couldnt feel it at all
lol
if YOu dont want kids then YOU make him
wrap his willy
no matter how much of a "feeling" you
loose 
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Jasonsbaby
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Posted: 09-16-07 15:21pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | Jasonsbaby
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | Keeba88
wrote: | Well neither myself or my
boyfriend are allergic to condoms...he
just claims that they are to thick and he
can't feel anything! So thats part of the
reason i went on BC...and for cramps and
to knowwhen i'm getting my period. But
yea! i'm
excited |
lol he can still feel sex even with a
condom on!
thats a cheap excuse boys use to get out
of useing one  |
Ok so it is a excuse but I can't feel as
much with him using one. We can still feel
sex just not as good and its not as much
fun. |
yeah well tell him that being pregnant
aint much fun either
i dont care if he couldnt feel it at all
lol
if YOu dont want kids then YOU make him
wrap his willy
no matter how much of a "feeling" you
loose  |
Well come next year it won't be that big
of a deal. I would still want him to use
condoms but i'm tired of stinging and
rashes down there that mess hurts.
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Posted: 09-16-07 15:31pm
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theres lots of methods of birth control
(besides condoms and the pill)
there are:
spermacide
IUD
nuvaring
sponges
femecon FE (chewable BC pill)
abstenece (the only real way not to get
pregnant because no matter what you use
you can still get preg)
depo shot
the patch
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