I am a straight male. I am pretty good with protecting myself with intercourse but I am worried about herpes and syphilis. From the first time I was sexually active at 17 to now 26 I noticed I have kissed a lot of females and I have only received oral sex 5 times unprotected. All my hiv test up to now are all negative. I've never had to my knowledge a herpes outbreak in my genital area or around my mouth (small painful blister legion bumps) never had that happen but sometimes in my mouth when I am stressed I'll get one white legion with red around it and it is painful but it is only when I'm stressed. And the kissing. I was reading that you can get syphilis from kissing. Up till now no signs of syphilis. Brown painless bump. No signs of syphilis in mouth or genitals. I want to get test because I really can't say with 100% accurately I have it or not. And what is a good waiting period from possible exposure to get testing for both of these.