14 years old and already been pregnant/on birth control.
If your peers are telling you ridiculous, misunderstood things like that, and you don't know any better than to believe them, you are not ready to be having sex.
I fear for the future.
I'm not trying to be mean, society just makes me sad.

Kids behaviors are beyond their maturity levels... 13/14 year olds should be having fun, not worrying about getting pregnant.