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September 14th, 2007
There's this girl I really really like and have days where we hang out and I can't find the right thing to say or talk about to her about... She'll start talking and I'll just sit there and go... ah... hmmm....ya.... or it will just go compeltly silent for minutes without eye contact. When I'm around my friends while she's around I'm energentic,have a smile on my face,and have a ton to talk about.. My personality just seems terrible around her I don't know what to talk to her about to get her excited or laughing. I need a lot of help big time cause tonite I felt like I blew it.
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young Girl
replied September 14th, 2007
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be

y-o-u-r-s-e-l-f

girls like that the most
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Jesse03
replied September 14th, 2007
I am myself just have no clue what to say or talk to her about my mind goes blank.
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young Girl
replied September 14th, 2007
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then maybe it isnt meant to be hun
i know its hard to talk but with a relationshio you have to have great communication or it just wont work

if you are haveing a problem with communication already..then the future may not be good
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Jesse03
replied September 14th, 2007
This girl is the first person in my life where we have so much in common... like everything music,hobbies,ect.

Some days I'm happy and can talk to her about a ton of stuff.

Then other days I'm sad and don't know what to say to her.


I don't know when I'm happy and have energy we both have fun hanging out and talking but on the days I can't I don't know...
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young Girl
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Jesse03 wrote:
This girl is the first person in my life where we have so much in common... like everything music,hobbies,ect.

Some days I'm happy and can talk to her about a ton of stuff.

Then other days I'm sad and don't know what to say to her.


I don't know when I'm happy and have energy we both have fun hanging out and talking but on the days I can't I don't know...


why are you sad somedays? what makes you sad?

when you love or are falling for someone then they are supposed to help make you happy Very Happy
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Jesse03
replied September 14th, 2007
I used to be Happy all the time and full of tons of energy now I need like 3 cans of pop just to make it through the day to be happy and after the caffiene wears off I feel unhappy,no energy,and like a brick wall... I don't know how to explain it I wanna be happy !!!! just my body isn't letting me be happy.
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young Girl
replied September 14th, 2007
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Jesse03 wrote:
I used to be Happy all the time and full of tons of energy now I need like 3 cans of pop just to make it through the day to be happy and after the caffiene wears off I feel unhappy,no energy,and like a brick wall... I don't know how to explain it I wanna be happy !!!! just my body isn't letting me be happy.


no your MIND isnt letting you be happy Wink ok think of it like this...you have this girl..who makes you smile most of the time
you like her right? you guys have llots in common and she awknoledges you in her life: dont throw that away

the soda isnt helping
its a temp high for you...when it wears off it brings you back down again and not to mention its not healthy so it makes your body feel bad sometimes too.youve gotta stop thinking. stop thinking about everything

just go out with this girl
hang out
take a walk to no where. dont even plan where you are going to go...just walk...or drive if youre old enoght to
and end up someplace
and recionize your surroundings
breathe and look at her
look at your life and your self and how much that moment in time means to you
feel her. feel her presence and her smile and her voice...

and let life come to you hun
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