nudey piks on my bf phone! Am I Weird For Thinking This? Posted: 09-14-07 14:23pm
Well I found a few nudey piks again on my
boyfriends phone. I couldn't see the girls
face but there was a message on it saying
"are these the pics you wanted? Please
don't share them wit anyone. I trust you"
Again my heart sank. I don't know who the
girl is but after I saw them I didn't feel
as devistated as I did the first time. I
just felt like their nudey pics of some
chik it would be the same as him looking
at porn anywere else....rite?
But I don't know why I didn't feel so mad.
He tells me he loves me so much and he
shows it. He's such an amazing man to me.
So I guess I jus don't feel threatened by
the pictures cause that's all they
are...pictures. And I don't feel therated
cause I have him and she doesn't. Is my
brain and emotions jus desensitized?
Oh another thing that ties everything
together. There was a bday party at the
bar we go to. And he didn't invite me. We
always go to bday parties together. And
when he came back I wanted to have sex wit
him, I'm being all romantic and sexy and
when I tried kissing him he jus turned
away. That's soo odd to me. Oh yea the
pics were dated for today. So I don't kno
if they conside with each other...I'm so
emo rite now any advice would really put
me at ease.
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-14-07 14:26pm
lol your not emo your just hurt and
confused
umm hun im sorry but if i found those pics
from some chick travis (my bf) knew on his
phone it would be ovvver
porn is one thingg
but someone he knows and associates with
isrediculous
thats just me though
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ladyT83
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Joined: 02 Apr 2007 Posts: 44
Posted: 09-14-07 14:55pm
I want to let it slide. We've been
together for a year now but I don't want
to be made a fool of again. I couldn't
recognize the girl but your rite.
If its someone he associated wit is jus
stupid.
I don't feel as hurt cause my
Other side of my brain is telling me their
jus pictures. Maybe I feel like he's not
cheating on me cause their jus pics. But
still it sucks feeling that I'm not enough
for him. Months ago I had found pics of
his ex on his phone and he erased them.
And what happened last nite getting
rejected and all hurt and made me
suspicious and all. But I have better caca
to do than to kill myself over this. Sorry
for the language
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-14-07 15:02pm
ladyT83
wrote:
I want to let it slide.
We've been together for a year now but I
don't want to be made a fool of again. I
couldn't recognize the girl but your rite.
If its someone he associated wit is jus
stupid.
I don't feel as hurt cause my
Other side of my brain is telling me their
jus pictures. Maybe I feel like he's not
cheating on me cause their jus pics. But
still it sucks feeling that I'm not enough
for him. Months ago I had found pics of
his ex on his phone and he erased them.
And what happened last nite getting
rejected and all hurt and made me
suspicious and all. But I have better
health question to do than to kill myself
over this. Sorry for the
language
lol its ok hun i know how you feel
you know i just dont think you should put
up with this
dont let him hurt you
easier said than done right? its hard to
leave and get away because you care about
him but i wouldnt stand for it
youve got better sh** to do than sit
around and let him try and do things
behind your back
the fact that he would even have those
pics and talk to that girl is ludacris and
you shouldnt stand for it. lord knows what
he will do next if hes not doing it
already
if you ever need to talk private message
or e mail me anytime
im on alot
im here if you need me
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beachlover801
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2007 Posts: 107 Location: ,
Posted: 09-17-07 20:59pm
im so sorry. I think honestly you
shouldnt think of these as just pictures.
How would he feel if he saw naked guys on
your phone.
you need to have the respect for yourself
and stand up to him and say that he needs
to be looking at you! porn is one thing,
its a fantasy ( i dont even totally like
that .. but everyone feels different ) if
this is a girl he knows its wrong. plain
and simple. and it doesnt sound like hes
been treating you to good.. you need to
take a closer look at this and listen to
what you are really feeling inside and
stop trying to justify his actions...
good luck i know it can be hard...
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Posted: 09-17-07 21:01pm
beachlover801
wrote:
im so sorry. I think
honestly you shouldnt think of these as
just pictures. How would he feel if he
saw naked guys on your phone.
you need to have the respect for yourself
and stand up to him and say that he needs
to be looking at you! porn is one thing,
its a fantasy ( i dont even totally like
that .. but everyone feels different ) if
this is a girl he knows its wrong. plain
and simple. and it doesnt sound like hes
been treating you to good.. you need to
take a closer look at this and listen to
what you are really feeling inside and
stop trying to justify his actions...
good luck i know it can be
hard...
hell no
he does know her
she sent him msgs saying "dont show anyone
theses i trust you"
theres a big diff between porn and someone
you know
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beachlover801
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Joined: 22 Aug 2007 Posts: 107 Location: ,
Posted: 09-17-07 21:03pm
i agree.. porn is unattainable.. he cant
physically cheat with porn.. he knows this
girl obviously like thegirlfriend said...
ditch him now...he doesnt respect you
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wazzywoman4ever
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Aug 2007 Posts: 67 Location: texas, america
Be Brave ... Posted: 09-21-07 21:42pm
gal ,
read what your writing .....please be
ready for the worst nudy pics recently
from someone he knows and has probly met
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!is it ok for him to
entertain thoughts of cheating on you
...go to party;s with out you ...and
reject you after the party he went to with
out you ????????you may be number one but
he has other numbers in his list and you
are not the the only one.......confront
him and decide if you are gonna let him
treat you this way or not you want to
share him? ok its your life but he very
well has other women on his mind and it
may be more than pictures they are giving
him....safe sex with this guy ....best of
luck ....your happiness ..............
wazzywoman/robin
