Great For We Girls Who Are Stay At Home Posted: 08-06-07 11:08am
I am new to dallas and most of my
neighbors are into life styles I don't
care for or working .my main concern is
the difference in my sex drive and my guys
I am 46 he is 51 .
we both take medication his for depression
mine is pain managment and recently for
depression my life with him...guessing? he
was heavy drinker recently sober and still
sober so ok that could be an issue too. he
has never been able to get and stay
really hard so maybe its medical ? but
heres the thing when he first met me and
when we recently got back together after
two weeks over his drinking we went at it
all night into the next morning days at a
time ..now he gets me home and I feel cut
off cause its back to being like christmas
again ? he claims its not my body but once
in anger and while drunk told me " well if
you wieghed 150lbs and had red hair I
would @*@*k you everyday !" so it may not
be true and it may be true but I feel he
would like me to be smaller I carry 180lbs
and never have been a small person .this a
side theses things can be obtained but not
over night ,,well the hair color maybe .
but so why make me suffer it really does
hurt to go too long with no release even
though I am a woman there must be such a
thing for us like the men when they get
blue balls ..please please dont preach
masterbation to me i loath lonely sex and
would have no need to add a man to my life
if masterbation was so great .and when he
suggests it it comes across as punishment
not something to enjoy ...I want to share
not be confined to my bed room alone
...well maybe we just need more time but
too much time passes between fixes
...thank you ladies robin
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-06-07 11:38am
Hun we would NEVER prescribe masturbation
as an alternative to real intimacy with
someone who is supposed to love you!! He
sounds like an absolute jerk. We all know
how special sex, intimacy, and love can
be. I don't think you deserve such a slob
as him, he's not worth your time!! You can
do way way better!!
