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Q: Stressful Week (help Me!)
asked by: young Girl on September 13th, 2007
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ok guys- so i havent been on much the last week because ive been house sitting for my mom while shes honeymooning it up in NYC Cool Cool

BEWARE ITS LONG BUT PLEASE SOME ONE READ THIS AND HELP ME Sad

so ive been so stressed its not even funny

monday evening was ok
tony(brother) and barbara (sister) came home from schhol and i told them they had to take turns with the computer so they each got an hour at a time but not until they helped with chores first. so my sis and me did dishes but like always tony said he didnt *have to* help or do anythinhg (keep in mind that my mom doenst make them do chores ever and they are sppoiled brats and get whatever they want whenevr they want...tony says f*** every other word and barbara is a spoiled preteen brat)
so barb did dishes and mopped the floor and tony refused to do anything...so i daid fine...no computer for you

well then tuesday came and me and travis drove back out to our house and checked on the dogs and everything...so then we drove back to my moms in time for tony and barbara to get home frokm school...well...then "it" happens

i told tony he could get oon the comp if he did dishes...so he did them and that suprised me lol... barbara came home with a HUGE attitude problem! i dont know what was stuck up her butt but she walked in and slammed her bedroom door
so i went in and i was like whats wrong? and she goes "ive had a hard day so get out and leave me alone im getting on the computer..."
well no barb you arent until you do laundry and get your homework done

so this sets her off even more
then she did laundry and got on the comp

ok so its 9:30 at night and the phone continuously begins to ring off the hook. like ni joke every five minutes...and so i answered after the fifth time someone called and i said "hello?"
"hi"
"ugh who is this?"
"WHO IS THIS?!"

so i got pissed "excuse me you brat but this is suzy and you called THIS HOUSE so when i ask who it is then you tell me"

click


phone rings again and i pick it up...by now barb is standing in the room asking who it was
"hello?" i answer
"health forum fu** you!!!!!"

so i started cussing this kid out. sorry but thats way out of line... i was pissed and so barb begins getting mad saying i cant do that to her friends and im not her mom so i cant tell her what to do and shes not going to listen to what i say and she is runnig away now... Rolling Eyes

may i mention that i woke up at four am the previous morning and hadnt slept since Evil or Very Mad

so then travis comes out of the living room and tells barb to calm down and stop yelling at me
she slams her door in his face and so he opened it and shes in there packing her clothes because shes "running away"

so i walked in her room and said barba you are not running away go to bed its almost 10 at night and you have school tomarrow

so she starts screaming at me and i start to cry because im tired and stressed and i felt like crap all day... and then travis sees me crying and starts to yell at barbara and so everyone is yelling and im crying and it was horrible


so about 11 things settle down and she goes to bed and i lay down because i feel like im seriously about to go into preterm labor becauise im so stressed...

that night me and travis relaxed and went to bed and slept in until 10am the nest morning...i felt better wednsday when i woke u...refreshed...travis wanted to take me shopping at the mall so we decided we were going to go to our house and check on the dogs and then go to the mall... so im all exited and we drove out to our house... it WAS going to be a BETTER DAY

well....all of a sudden...a friggen cop pulls us over on the HIGHWAY
this guy...was a JERK
we were going two miles over the speed limit and he wrote us a $179 ticket?!?!?! ARE YOU KIDDING ME? TWO MILES OVER!?

so i was p-i-s-s-e-d
so so mad Evil or Very Mad Mad Sad Crying or Very sad

and so then...travis doesnt want to take me shopping...

i havent ate all day except for a piece of toast
im so upset
travis and my sister are so mad at each other and they wont even talk
tony is being a brat and thinks he can do what he wants all over
my dad started to drink again since my mom got married and he feels like he has "nothing left" and so hes most likely going to put himself into another heart attack or something

guys help me
please
i know its long and im so sorry yall had to read all this
repies would help...i dont know wht to do
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Sandbox Party
replied on September 13th, 2007
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first off, hun, you need to realize none of this is your problem. Your mother did right with you.. thats all that matters you get to go home in a few days and then it will allll be over.

**just bre-e-e-e-athe.**

secondly, your kids will turn out waaay better because you are a spectacular person and going to be a fantastic mommy.

**just take a deep breath and... bre-e-e-e-athe.**

Third.. what your dad does is his business.. yes it sucks to watch him go thru that, but theres not much you can do but offer support, and a shoulder to lean on.


**just bre-e-e-e-eeeeathe.**

Fourth.. fight that ticket, sister!! Two miles per hour?! Thats ludicrous. All you have to say is that between your car and his radar gun, it could have been one MPH off on both sides. That ticket was unfair and unnecessary.

and i quote... "It is estimated that over 25% of all radar tickets are in error. The most noticeable and common mistakes include shadowing, RFI interference, cosine error and mechanical interference." refer the judge to http://www.radarbusters.com/mistakesarticl e.cfm.



Lastly.. a little quote to make you grin..

*~*Friendship is like peeing on yourself: everyone can see it, but only you get the warm feeling that it brings.*~*

**just bre-e-e-e-eeeeathe.**

HUGS

~S
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young Girl
replied on September 13th, 2007
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oh man you made me feel better lol

im sitting her takeing deep breaths everytime you say breathe and travis is looking at me like im wierd Laughing

and i asked him an hour and a half ago if he could take me to go get some ice cream and still...no ice cream
Evil or Very Mad

lol he BETTER take me to shop tomarrow im not kidding
ive givin him so much money this past week and im paying the ticket out of the money in my account
all i wanna do is get out and go take some time for myself...which i need right now

lol kristen is NOT going to be any thing like barbara is if i can help it
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Sandbox Party
replied on September 13th, 2007
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glad i could help. ^_^

and oooh i want ice creeeeeam. Niller. With Reeses Peanut Butter Cups crumbled in it.

Yum.
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young Girl
replied on September 13th, 2007
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rainfire1424 wrote:
glad i could help. ^_^

and oooh i want ice creeeeeam. Niller. With Reeses Peanut Butter Cups crumbled in it.

Yum.


lol i dont care what kind of ice cream i get as long as its ice cream and i get it soon

Very Happy but reeses sounds great too. might have to get some of them as well Very Happy
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Sandbox Party
replied on September 13th, 2007
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when i was prego with Caty, i would scoop my reeses cups into soft niller ice scream and it them lol.

i also dipped MacDonald's french fries in their ice cream lol. gross but hey what can ya do.
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young Girl
replied on September 13th, 2007
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lol crave what you eat! thats what my mom always said!!!

thanks btw...i feel better so far
hopefully i can just get some sleep and everything will go ok tonight
only 4 days til i get to go back home Very Happy
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Sandbox Party
replied on September 13th, 2007
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**just bre-e-e-e-eeeeathe.**
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young Girl
replied on September 13th, 2007
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rainfire1424 wrote:
**just bre-e-e-e-eeeeathe.**


ha ha

i breathed
travis goes "suzy are you ok?" Wink
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Sandbox Party
replied on September 13th, 2007
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lol tell Travis to **just bre-e-e-e-eeeeathe.**
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young Girl
replied on September 13th, 2007
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whoa how did i get those strikey things in my last post?! Shocked

travis said im on these forums too much Laughing
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Sandbox Party
replied on September 13th, 2007
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the_girlfreind wrote:
whoa how did i get those strikey things in my last post?! Shocked

travis said im on these forums too much Laughing


lol tell Travis to suck a fat one Laughing We're your guiding light. You GOTTA be here.
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young Girl
replied on September 13th, 2007
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rainfire1424 wrote:
the_girlfreind wrote:
whoa how did i get those strikey things in my last post?! Shocked

travis said im on these forums too much Laughing


lol tell Travis to suck a fat one Laughing We're your guiding light. You GOTTA be here.


lol he gets upset because he cant fiure out why im on here so much
so i tell him....uhh to talk to people? and he says" why cant you just talk to me?!"

uhhh...because obviously i cant get throught to you alot of the times...like when i mentioned almost 3 hrs ago that i wanted ice cream and you said we would go in a minute but youre still playing warcraft?!?!?
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Sandbox Party
replied on September 13th, 2007
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omg thats EXACTLY how Rob is. It takes FOREVER for him to take a hint. I swear that boy is smarter than most people i know..(and i know a LOT of people lol) but MAN does he not act like it sometimes lol.
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young Girl
replied on September 13th, 2007
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rainfire1424 wrote:
omg thats EXACTLY how Rob is. It takes FOREVER for him to take a hint. I swear that boy is smarter than most people i know..(and i know a LOT of people lol) but MAN does he not act like it sometimes lol.


lol i know! im back here sittng behind him sighing every three minutes

he still doenst get it
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replied on September 13th, 2007
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the_girlfreind wrote:
rainfire1424 wrote:
omg thats EXACTLY how Rob is. It takes FOREVER for him to take a hint. I swear that boy is smarter than most people i know..(and i know a LOT of people lol) but MAN does he not act like it sometimes lol.


lol i know! im back here sittng behind him sighing every three minutes

he still doenst get it


lol say something like, *it sure would suck if you had to go without sex just because i dont have any ice cream to eat...*

see if that gets his attention lmao.
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replied on September 13th, 2007
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rainfire1424 wrote:
the_girlfreind wrote:
rainfire1424 wrote:
omg thats EXACTLY how Rob is. It takes FOREVER for him to take a hint. I swear that boy is smarter than most people i know..(and i know a LOT of people lol) but MAN does he not act like it sometimes lol.


lol i know! im back here sittng behind him sighing every three minutes

he still doenst get it


lol say something like, *it sure would suck if you had to go without sex just because i dont have any ice cream to eat...*

see if that gets his attention lmao.


so i said man it sure does suck that you gotta go without sex tonight since i didnt get any ice cream...

and his excuse was "but i love you" Rolling Eyes
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replied on September 13th, 2007
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the_girlfreind wrote:
rainfire1424 wrote:
the_girlfreind wrote:
rainfire1424 wrote:
omg thats EXACTLY how Rob is. It takes FOREVER for him to take a hint. I swear that boy is smarter than most people i know..(and i know a LOT of people lol) but MAN does he not act like it sometimes lol.


lol i know! im back here sittng behind him sighing every three minutes

he still doenst get it


lol say something like, *it sure would suck if you had to go without sex just because i dont have any ice cream to eat...*

see if that gets his attention lmao.


so i said man it sure does suck that you gotta go without sex tonight since i didnt get any ice cream...

and his excuse was "but i love you" Rolling Eyes


ooh hellll no.

its time to get dirty.

start crying... ALWAYS works.
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