only 10% of women can vaginally orgasm

yeah, a large percentage of women can't orgasm but at least they feel something during sex. They just don't climax. I don't think that the issue of women not receiving any pleasure whatsoever from intercourse has been discussed enough. It's always about women who get enjoyment out of intercourse but simply cannot climax/orgasm. I'd love to trade places with a woman who finds intercourse enjoyable but can't orgasm..instead of feeling like my coochie is numb down there

is it normal for some women not to feel any pleasure from plain intercourse?

It is normal for women not to feel pleasure during intercourse, at least not enough to get an orgasm.

That being said, there are ways you can fix that- positions that you can shift around and squirm until you are feeling pressure on your clit. Personally, I get clitoral orgasms from sex all the time from the pressure of his pubic area rubbing on my clit as the penetration is happening. If you try enough things, you might be able to find a way that it will feel good for you. Otherwise, stimulate your clit during sex.

What is the purpose of the vagina? A place for the baby to come out of and the sperm to go into.

i don't see the point in stimulating my clit just to get pleasure during sex, i can do that alone. i feel like if i am having sex it's because i want to get enjoyment from a guy's penis thrusting inside of me. you see, i have yet to get any real enjoyment out of penetration..it feels like nothing. what's up with that?

Well, like I said, I don't have vaginal orgasms either. But I have learned different positions where his genital area stimulates my clit and I am able to orgasm. So it's still from sex, but a clitoral orgasm.

are you saying that without clitoral stimulation you would not be able to feel any pleasurable sensations during sex?

because if I don't rub my clit during intercourse, sex is not pleasureable at all.

Yes, that is what I'm saying.

However, I can't directly rub my clit either, that really is just painful for me. The best way for me really is to position myself (usually me on top) so that my clit is rubbing against the base of his penis. That might work for you.

I guess sex for me is pleasurable, but that's because of the indirect clitoral stimulation. The thrusting is nice, I guess, but I would never get off from just the thrusting. I agree that dildos do nothing. Vibrators, especially the ones the the rabbit ears that tickle your clit, now that's something.....

lol yep the rabbit ears do the trick!!!!!!!

Well unfortunately, nature decided that your clitoris was what would get pleasure and not the vagina. The vagina is a basket for sperm. Some women are lucky and it feels good to fill it. But many don't. There is pretty much nothing you can do to add nerves to a body part.

It's like asking why your elbow doesn't make you orgasm. Why? Well, because it just doesn't.

I enjoy the closeness, and it does feel good to me to be filled; it sends a rush down my body of tingles. But I could never orgasm from it!

I don't understand. If most women don't feel anything from penetration, then why do they do it so much?? I was told by many peers that a penis inside a vagina feels good to the woman

Because for some women it does. The sensation of being filled is erotic, a turn on, just like having your ear whispered in or your breasts caressed. But you're not going to orgasm from these things normally!

Certainly feels good for me, I love him inside, it really gets me off..

every woman is different. If it doesnt feel good to you your not alone. Alot of women can only have an orgasm from oral or manual stimulation. But it does feel good to some women. I love intercourse and can usually orgasm from it. But it all depends on positions and mood and what not. But you are totally normal and nothing is wrong if that isnt what works for you

It's very devastating to discover that I don't have enough nerves in my vagina to make sexual intercourse enjoyable. All that stuff about being told that every woman's body is 'unique' and 'different' doesn't help my situation. You live in a world where most women are generally fulfilled sexually with penetration and that you are not one of them really hurts. I Especially, when you are surrounded by many other women who enjoy it and can generally get off. Not being able to enjoy penetration has caused problems in a past relationship..i was told that I wasn't normal, and that I complain too much because I didn't find anything that worked for me. My ex got sick of just doing oral all the time as most guys do. How is a relationship supposed to work out if I fall into the minority of women who feel nothing during intercourse? This is very emotionally distressing. I get very depressed everytime someone even talks about sex.

Do clitoral stimulation during vaginal. If your partner is so close-minded he doesn't even want to do that for you or let you do it then he is the problem, not you. I have to do that, millions of women have to do that.

Like I told you, I do not orgasm because of my vagina. I enjoy the filled feeling, but it's not an orgasm sensation. It's just another turn on.

Clitoral stimulation doesn't feel as good when a penis is inside of me. It's like the sensation decreases. It only feels really good when I am rubbing up against something or when I am receving oral. I don't know why that happens.

It may be because of the different sensation of the penis that masturbating to orgasm with the penis inside may take longer, and it may seem less sensitive at first. Have you ever actually orgasmed that way?