I have recently had the abortion pill (16 days ago ) and it has been a long and very difficult process. I am in the U.K and through the National Health Service this is the only option offered. Private abortions start at about £500. I had to visit the hospital 3 times before the final pill, on the day I was there for 7 hours in unbelievable pain. I was drugged to the eyeballs but screamed many times.
My problem is that the abortion was not complete. I had passed the foetus but not all the surrounding tissue. I have been back to the hospital for 2 ultrasound scans and today I was booked for surgery to have the remaining products sucked out, but just before (literally..I was in a gown with wristband on) another consultant came and said I shouldn't have surgery.This is because I have strepp B bacteria present and this could cause an infection, this meant in surgery I could have a high chance of hemorrhaging. Now I am on 2 types of antibiotics and am due for another ultrasound scan in 3 days
This has been an extremely stressful process and still isn't over. I know I made the right decision to end the pregnancy but the surgical abortion sounds less complicated and stressful. I'm sure some woman take the abortion pill without such problems but I also know that what is happening to me is not uncommon. If Doctors are opting for the medical abortion as they think it's less of a demand on hospital resources perhaps they should take into account all the problems afterwards....
Please if you are considering an abortion please don't let my experience scare you. Take care and call on any support you have available.