Here's my story. I have been with the same girl for 5 years now. We had some problems earlier this year and split up for about 5 weeks. We got back together and everything was going fine.

About a month and a half ago we got into a fight...we were both drunk. To make a long story short she dug up the worst thing she could say to hurt me. Her exact words were "I was doing it another guy when we were broke up!". I was mad and said we were over. After that I felt like a hypocrite because.....I was sleeping with another woman while we were split up too. the one difference is that I would never throw that in her face to hurt her.

The week after I had made my mind up that I was leaving. We dont live together but I have alot of stuff at her house. When I started moving my stuff out she was a total mess. Crying all the time. Wouldnt get out of bed. Taking pills. Said she couldnt live without me. She told me that he meant nothing and it was just 2 friends hooking up. I dont know who he is. She said I would never meet him and that he knew we were back together.

She actually met the girl I was sleeping with and had a few confrontations that didnt go too well. I have tried and tried to get over it but I think about her sleeping with this other guy constantly. We are back together now but it is causing alot of problems cause its still a huge thorn in my side. I havent been able to have a solid relationship since. I told her things are never going to be the same.....and it hasnt been.

I really love her and want it to work but I feel like were never going to have a healthy relationship knowing what we know. I cant seem to get it out of my head and it hurts every single day. Should I forgive her and try to move on.....or is it just not going to work? How tdo I get rid of that thorn in my side? am I being a hypocrite? Can we make this work?